I have trouble making eye contact with people. Is there any way to "CURE" for this and what is it?
2007-12-05 02:02:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
ALSO I cant even look at thier face
2007-12-05 02:45:31 · update #1
I think u lack confidence. Find its causes and try to improve . Knowledge is one of the power which increases ur confidence. When u talk to persons keep fixing ur eyes on to them. With few days practice u will improve. U can start at home with ur parents , brother or sister . Wish u good luck.
2007-12-05 02:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by nazbak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am fine with it until I start thinking about it, which I can't help. If I am having a conversation with someone, I will be fine and not even be thinking about eye contact, it just comes natural. Then, all of a sudden, I will think about the whole concept of "eye contact" and then I start getting uncomfortable and conscious of how long I look at them for without turning away.
2007-12-05 02:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by mrr86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem for a long time, so I told a couple of friends and every time I'd look away, no matter what was being said, they would just stop and say something like "eyes!" One guy even tilted my head back up without saying anything, lol
2007-12-05 02:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been dealing with the same issue for a little while two. i'll b looking at someone and then i feel so uncomfortable looking in their eyes that i have to keep looking away. i hope i don't seem rude but i get uneasy. i read that u should look betweeen the eyebrows so tha way it appears that ur looking in the eyes but ur not.
2007-12-05 02:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by ch@L@nt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have trouble doing that too. I feel so awkward when Looking someone in the eye. so what I do is look at their forehead and concentrate on the conversation. it always helps
2007-12-05 02:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷVERONICA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to develop your self confidence. remember, the person you are looking at probably feels the same way. the only time avoiding eye contact is necessary is when you are lying. your eyes will betray you!
2007-12-05 02:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by grumpy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is, just practice making eye contact and it will eventually come natural. when you are making eye contact just start counting in your head or something to keep your mind on something else so you can keep eye contact longer.
2007-12-05 02:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just try to be aware of it and work on it. I have the same problem, I get really uncomfortable. It is important though, so I try to make myself whenever I realize my eyes are avoiding theirs.
2007-12-05 02:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact should be fleeting anyway, I don't trust someone that stares into my eyes, I think their trying to read me mind.
2007-12-05 02:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by mikeywills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare at the place on their nose, between the eyes.
If you practice staring someone down, you will find it quite easy. Dont blink. Hey - others do it to you, why shouldnt you do it back? They will break eye contact with you eventually.
2007-12-05 02:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋