no more feeling for my wife?

Question

First I married her is because we have been together for quite some time and I always thought that my feeling will grow for her as time go(I did try). From my past relation experience I thought to be love is better to love someone, now we are married with a 2 years old daughter, what I can do to have a good separation and stay as a friend to look after our daughter. I may not be a good husband but I’m a good father for sure, I don’t wish my daughter get hurt and will hate me as I know her mum will tell her bad thing about me. Please advise me?????

I will still pay for all the family expenses
And giving her my share of a property we brought

Answer 1

Discuss it with your wife. Just tell her you want out, assure her you'll still provide for the family but you're just not happy anymore nor is she and you'd like to see her happy as well. But you would like to still remain as friends so you can be part of your daughter's life.

Answer 2

It's been a couple days since you asked this question, so I pray that things are working out better? Is there a reason that you're wanting now, in particular? Holidays are difficult to begin with, so please, if you're going to leave her, don't do it right now. Give it a bit of time and see if you feel differently after Christmas.
I truly hope things out for you. I'm sending you two links: one for what to do to keep things going, one for what to do when it's over.
I hope everything works out okay in the end. Sounds like you've got a great little family going for you. It might seem your life is boring, but there's so many marriages where the parents are doing nothing but arguing, so if you're not fighting but just bored, please try to do something to make it happier.
Good luck.

Answer 3

There are not many good options here. Now that you have a daughter, what you do will effect her. If you leave, you might improve your own life, but will definitely downgrade your daughter's life. If your wife is vindictive, she could even make your life fairly miserable as well.

Weigh the two evils. Can you stand your wife enough to be with your daughter, or is it so bad that you are left with the hope that your daughter will be ok and understand if you leave.

Answer 4

That's silly decision you ever to commit in your life. No matter how you claimed to be a better father to your kid.
The kid still be the worst affected if you continue separating from your wife. Remember that she will grow up made from a broken family, emotionally there would be inferior effect to her attitudes. No happy kid is ever be brought up to be good kid when she felt unhappy due to her parents problem. Your obligation and responsibilities would be neglected, because you are not certain to find anew wife again to be your new family. Your decision has selfish only one advantage, to you alone to have away from your solemn commitment.

Think twice bofere committing unfavorable decision, Remember that marriage is a commitment and responsibilities not like eating a food when it is used, hot and bitter, you'll going to spit it out. Good relationship shall have patient and respect spice up with understanding.
To give a chance another try is not yet late. WHy not try to find a solution to your family problem like constant communication to reconcile your differences with your wife?

Answer 5

You know her better than we do. How do you think she'll handle it if you break up? My ex-wife kept my kids from me for years, before I finally found a way to reach them. It turned out okay, but no thanks to her! Maybe she's as sick of you as she is of you. I don't know your marriage like you do.

I say talk to her and get the feel of it. Tell her that something just isn't working here, and you don't know what it is. Ask for her help in figuring it out. This way, without committing to a divorce you'll find out how she'd react to one.