We have been together for a long time. I want him to be real and straight forward. I am in to tattoos and having fun when I am not being mom. He used to be into surfing and clubbing but now its just work and kids and I give him all the nookie he wants. I feel like he has lost his drive for life and it drives me crazy. I want him to be more confident of himself. Right now I have little respect for him because he is just surviving not living. what can I do to revive him or should I just leave?
2007-12-04 19:30:31 · 5 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have done many things at home after the kids are sleep. I have bent over backwards to not disrespect him and stay home and do all that he wants me to do. Now I have No friends and a ten year marriage that I am bored with. I don't want anyone else I just want to be proud of the one I am with or be alone with my kids.
2007-12-04 19:42:05 · update #1
I always feel like that, but I'm not going to leave someone just because of that. Find new things and ways together.
2007-12-04 19:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by cheng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his "real and straight forward" is all about work and kids and your life together. He is living a real life that has a more even tone to it while it sounds like you are looking for the lost yesterdays. Try a weekend away once in a while and see if he can find that man you fell in love with.
2007-12-05 03:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave him he is just growing up and trying to act responsible. Yall can have fun by staying home you just have to Waite till the kids go to bed. Get some toys and have fun. Try it you might like it and it is a lot cheaper than going to the club.
2007-12-05 03:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find time for him to do the things he enjoyed doing. Maybe he's just stressed out.
2007-12-05 03:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sad to know that. better talk to him about it. do something different during your spare time. ask him to go somewhere else even with your kids =)
2007-12-05 03:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋