a guy meets his ex girl friend after an year of his marriage to someone else. they both had fight as he stopped talking to her and she asked him why he stopped talking to her..he explained that his wife may not like him to be in touch with ex..and he told her that its better that she not discuss the issues abt her past because she is aware of the issues that can come up..and he said he is afraid that he may want to have sex with her.
was he emotionally attached to his ex , does he love her or the wife.
he married the other lady because of parents pressure . it was arranged marriage while his ex was his best friends for few years. they did not have sex ever..
thank you.
2007-12-04 19:19:50 · 6 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wondering what it could have been like is a fantasy best left untended. He gave into pressure and married his arranged partner so he owes her his loyalty.
2007-12-04 19:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dilemma indeed! He does love his ex and is not in love with his wife. He has a history with his ex and no matter how bumpy it might have been, there were good times also. The wife cannot compete with what they had or their desire at some closure if that what is going to happen. He is in a marriage not of his choosing and his ex was also his best friend. All 3 relationships are in peril. While it may not be the best choice or the right choice, I would go to the source of my passion--my ex--it is truly where my heart lies. He may seek closure so that his soul will be at peace.
2007-12-04 19:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the guy has a nice moral value deep rooted in him.He thought it wasn't proper for him to ditch the present one as well, especially, she is now his married wife and that too after he had consented to marry her , even though, I understand it was an arranged marriage.But, nobody could ever force a guy to marry someone without his willingness.This guy thinks that he had done injustice to his earlier one.Although he has a good feeling for her , he does not like to spoil the latest relationship.I understand, there's plenty of goodness in his judgment and this is logical.
2007-12-04 19:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages don't usually work but the guy is obviously committed to his marriage. Maybe best for the ex to stay away as he asked.
2007-12-04 19:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are VERY married. Stay away no matter what. Don't really matter what either of them think now. Leave him alone. He is someone elses now.
Find someone who is fully available to you.
Joy to you!
2007-12-04 19:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the dilemma is over.
2007-12-04 19:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋