Okay I don't give a fu** what anyone says. If you love someone enough to marry them then you will stay with that person no matter what. No matter what. NO MATTER WHAT!
That means no dishonor. No cheating. Let me repeat that.
No cheating.
Yes, that's right. N-o c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g. No cheating. Period
what is so hard about that. You're married. Why would you want to cheat?
When I get married, I will never cheat. Because I would rather DIE than break my woman's heart.
HONOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-04 17:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally agree with you, and that's why I have been married to the same man for 20 years!!
2007-12-04 18:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Live in a very idealistic world, don't you? I have never cheated and I believe as you do. But, many people don't intentionally set out to cheat and it takes them by surprise if they do.
Think that those who love their spouses and did cheat regret it and carry the guilt of hurting someone so much, the rest of their lives. Totally not worth it, but humans do many stupid idiotic things; cheating on the one you love is one of them.
I don't judge others; you never know what will happen in life or how you will react. You say you will never cheat and I hope you don't; remember your words throughout your marriage.
2007-12-05 08:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there seems to be a lot of people these days who don't take the time to really look at their life. Marriage is more than just "I love this person". You have to support each other emotionally and finacially. Deal with their faults and yours. All this can take its toll if you're not commited that much to your relationship. I think many people who cheat weren't either mature enough to be married or realized how much marriage is.
2007-12-05 02:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but there are alot of people out there that make excuses to justify their cheating. It is a decision that no matter what you are not going to go down that road. Any long term relationship will have bumps in the road. You will feel at times unappreciated, depressed, the stresses of life will impact your relationship ie you will not feel that all incompasing lust/love at all times. But as you meet the challenges of life together and stick by each other through the hard times (you know the richer or poorer and in sickness and in health times), you will develop a love greater than anything you could ever imagine. At least at times you will feel that way. At other times, you may just want to kick them in the a**. It is all about commitment.
2007-12-05 02:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I agree! bravo to you! =)
now, why do some get married knowing they will cheat? because they think they can get away w/ it... some people think they are invinceable, and this includes them thinking they can do anything w/o getting caught... some people think if they don't get caught, it's ok to keep doing it...
others throw out the line, "for better or worse when they get caught"... but, before that, in the vow it's stated to forsake all others!
some change the vows, on purpose, so it does not state, forsake all others... they think they are slick...
our vow said, forsake all others... =)
good luck to you! =) keep those standards! =)
ps, I have never cheated on my husband, and never will... didn't cheat on him before we married, either...
2007-12-05 08:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on the cheating, it is wrong and I would and have never cheated on anyone. But I have a problem with staying with that person no matter what, I will not stay with a angry, controlling, mentally abusive partner, no matter what.
2007-12-05 02:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
That's a very nice thought in theory, but how do you really know that you will NEVER break your woman's heart? If she wants a brand new BMW for her birthday one year and you don't give it to her, that may break her heart. Does that mean that you're going to do EVERYTHING she wants and never have a problem with that? It might break her heart if you raise your voice when you guys argue. Are you trying to say that you'll never in your entire relationship raise your voice to her?
Because I think love songs about never breaking each other's hearts are cr*p. Because there will always be something that you're going to do to hurt each other. It's just part of the process. Of course, there are things you can do to hurt each other more than others...but for the most part, you're going to do something to hurt each other.
People who cheat will oftentimes try to rationalize what they've done and not call it cheating. Therefore, someone might say, "Hey, I've never cheated either!"...yet they've been to a strip club a few times because they don't consider that cheating.
I think it's wonderful that you have this expectation of yourself never to cheat, but please don't claim that you'll never break a woman's heart. It's bound to happen sometime in your life. I'm guessing you haven't been in a relationship for longer than a couple of years to be saying that.
2007-12-05 02:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
I totally agree. Why do you make commitment when you are going to break it? It's disapointing and hurting someone who has become a major part of your life
why people do it? No one will ever know
2007-12-05 02:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by boy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never say never. I said never when I married and it turned into a horrible marriage and guess what I cheated. I never thought I would do it either.
2007-12-05 02:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by rene1695 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
how old are you?
Nobody marries with the intention of cheating sweetheart , and there is NO excuse for cheating .
2007-12-05 03:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋