I'm going to a memorial service for my sister who passed away last Thursday, and I'm not writing anything or going up to say anything, because I rather just keep the memories to myself and not share them. Is that wrong?
2007-12-04 17:03:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Its not wrong of you.This is a time when you should do whats in your heart.I felt this way after my father passed.I wanted to say so much but said nothing.No will ever understand what he meant to me.Some things should stay unspoken.Sorry for your loss.May the lord be with you and your family.
2007-12-04 17:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by HyperGforce 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear about your sister. And no it isn't wrong at all. I didn't say a word about my brother. Its fine to keep your memories to yourself. I did and when I want to share them I just write them in a journal
2007-12-04 17:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not wrong.. U have full right with ur memories, its upto u whether u want to share them or not.
In fact memories are the precious moments to treasure.
U are absolutely right on ur part my friend!!!
and I am very sorry for your sis.. May Almighty give her soul A DIVINE PEACE....
2007-12-04 17:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anjali 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not wrong. Everybody handles their grief & loss in a different manner. Some people cry, while others don't ......some will get angry, while others are in shock.....You just take care of yourself, and don't worry about what anyone thinks, as if they are truly your friends, they will be there for you. And my sympathies for your loss sweetie!!
2007-12-04 17:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn (AzCrazyGirl) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. the memorial services and funerals are really for the ppl left behind, so if it doesn't make you comfortable, you don't have to do it.
2007-12-04 17:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lissa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone handles with horrible things like this in their own way. It is not wrong at all, everyone should be understanding. God bless.
2007-12-04 17:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by guru 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all. thats what i would do. it seems best to keep your thoughts and experiences to yourself and cherish the memories!
2007-12-04 17:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Dancing_Architect 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolutely not. everybody deals with grief in their own way. sorry about your sister. it's never easy to lose a loved one.
2007-12-04 17:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♫How does she know?♫ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to speak. It will be hard enough already. Just talk to someone about it later, ok?
2007-12-04 17:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by ic2olney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but you probley should say a few words. Sorry about your sister.
2007-12-04 17:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by vlad 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋