How much sex is to much?

Question

IF you have sex with the same man can you do it as much as you want if you have sex with different men is there a bad number out there

Answer 1

Well I think its better to have sex with the same partner as many times as you want. Number one reason is in a monogumus relationship-One Partner with One Partner- Is that their is less chance of getting a STD. You can both be checked for STD's and once your in the clear that you both don't have it you can then have unprotected sex, keeping in mind its just you two. However if you sleep with several partners at a time your putting your self at risk for STD's and Getting pregnate and not knowing the father. As well as degrading yourself. I don't believe their is a "bad number" per say. However I think you need to keep in mind if its damaging emotionaly. Are you commited to these men? Are you avoiding love and using premiscuity as a tool to harm yourself further? Are you worth saving yourself for one special man or woman? You need to think about the reasons your doing this too. Where you sexual abused as a child? Many times that is the case and in those cases its a way of protecting ourselves from being hurt over and over again. IN the long run however it winds up hurting us and its not emotionaly healthy. Your worth more then that so just find one man or woman and stick with them. Trust me you will be glad you did. Of course thier is nothing wrong with having a extra in the room just for fun. Occasionaly indulge yourself but be with your main partner too so he/she is indulged too. Does that make sense?

Answer 2

I'd say that sex is too much when it starts to hurt your health or make you uncomfortable. I think the number goes down when we're talking about multiple partners because promiscuity is unhealthy, plain and simple. But I think it'd be a more emotional thing with one monogamous partner. It'd be a question of why you're having so much sex rather than jsut a question of how much sex you're having. If you're have sex for any reason than some type of enjoyment (be that the enjoyment of getting pregnant, the enjoyment of just having sex, or whatever), it isn't healthy.

Answer 3

Well i dont hink u can never have too much sex with the same person especially if he's ur boyfriend

having sex with more than one guy within a short amount of time (lets say a week) is just nasty..if u were to add a couple more men and a couple more weeks is even worse

u dont want that many men in u..if thats wat ur into just make sure that ur well protected that way u dont end up pregnant not knowing who the daddy is

Answer 4

Well the way that I look at it if my women wants to cheat she can, she just needs to tell me. However If I ever cheat she can't get on my case about it because if she does it, then that means I can too.

There is not a bad number as long as your man is not jealous about it. Most people want to **** someone else is just very few are open about it.

If you feel like doing it a million times go ahead and do it, but remember that there are changes that you must accept when you are doing this. So don't feel bad when these changes happen because they do.

And yes it will surprise you the day that you don't even think it will.

Answer 5

Well, there is such a case as a sex addiction however you have to have A LOT of sex to be considered a sex addict.

Kanye West is a self-described sex and porn addict. Last year he said he has to have sex 4-5 times a day, and has porn on him all the time in two or more magazines.

If that's true, I don't know how he sleeps, or works, lol. He had to sex 4 times at night and once in the morning, lol.

Answer 6

Well for women I would say more than 6 is bad and looks bad. For a guy more than 10 is not good. Yeah I know a double standard but that's just the way it is. No man wants a woman who has sleep with a lot of guys and truth is 6 is pushing it. We (guys) will have sex with a girl that's been with more than 6 men before, but about all of them would never consider dating her in a serious way or marring her. Yet if you have sex with only one man, then go for it as much and as often as you like. All that really matters is the number of people not the number of times. Heck one me and this Japanese girl I dated had sex 5 times in one day. Yeah that was a lot of fun, needless to say I was worn out!!! I would not recommend doing anything like that, but hey if you all want to have it every day and twice on Fridays, go for it as long as it is with the same guy. It's when a girl has 6 or more partners that guys think of them and see them as sl*ts. Sorry to say that, but it is the truth. =)

Answer 7

Whats wrong with sex b/t two consenting adults. maybe tons of sex could on rare occasion could lead to a UTI or mild irritation but I really don't think so. I don't know if there is a bad number but... the more you have the more likely you'll get something nasty. Got to be carefull... too bad, otherwise I think people should go madly at it.

Answer 8

A monogamous relationship is the only way to a healthy sex life. Well, To a healthy life period.

IF you're in an exclusive relationship (preferably a marriage, but that's only in a perfect world.....) Then there is no amount of sex that's too much. Unless you or him is getting rug burn!

As long as you are taking precautions, like using lots of lubricant, not rushing things.... etc.... You should be fine to shag like a bunny.

Cheers

Answer 9

I'm going to be shallow for a moment and say that there is a number out there because every body is a work of art and is tended differently and when a person has deciphered the entire body, why go on?

Answer 10

The simple answer is: as long as it feels good then it's not too much.

But when your sex life begins to interfere with other aspects of your life or puts your health at risk, then you probably need to take a break.

I won't comment about one partner vs. multiple partners, because that's something have to decide for yourself. However, you should remember that the more partners you have, the greater your risk of getting an STD.