Should I take the pill for my first time or have my boyfriend wear a condom?
2007-12-04 15:55:15 · 6 answers · asked by RIOT! 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
1st muffin, disregard the comments of miami & Dakota. They are incorrect. Dakota needs a therapist. Now, most girls I know despise the feel of rubbers in their vagina. And you may be allergic to the latex as many are so don't chance it. You would not like the feeling of a rubber in your vagina muffin. You said you can be taking a pill so that is the superior choice. The best place for rubbers is to remain on the shelf where thay belong. Plus they ruin the feeling for the man & are a poor contraceptive. Your 1st time should be special & skin to skin lovemaking is the only choice that makes sense !
2007-12-04 22:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you take the pill, you are taking it on a regular basis. if you want to take the chance have him do the condom thing. but, remember, wearing a condom is NOT 100 % safe against Sexually Transmitted Diseases or Babies !
Truely think about the little adventure you are about to take and make sure that it is Truely what you want for you might just end up with a little life that you will have for the rest of your young life.
2007-12-04 15:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by simpleminded 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A condom won't affect the way it feels for you. If it's a lubricated condom, it may actually make it easier for you.
If you take the pill, you'd still have to use a condom to protect yourself against STD's anyway.
2007-12-04 16:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the real dilemma for you, is should you do it. I highly recommend not doing it. I had may share of boyfriends and relationships, sex kills relationships. The relationship shifts from friendship to sex. The fulfilling lasting relationships I had were with men I did not have sex with. They truly wanted to be with me. Besides even before I knew a thing about the bible, I knew sex outside of marriage was just wrong. It always brought pain, shame and confusion to relationships. The value of virginity is very understated, but believe me it will keep a lot of men interested in you far longer then sex ever will. Just be careful in dating of date rape. My two sisters and I both were, obviously we thought we were safe. It's sad way to lose your virginity.
2007-12-04 16:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you may or may not feel the condom i know i can tell when it is one vs none it does feel a little different... you could also get one that intended to be more pleasurable foe famales than others
2007-12-04 16:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by kris4465 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any sensitivity to latex, have him use a natural condom... esp for the first time... they won't rub you the wrong way.
2007-12-04 16:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by thinking.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋