2007-12-04 14:36:31 · 23 answers · asked by lilianelyn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Please understand and realize that this is an acutal human being growing inside of you. I understand you didnt want to get pregnant and that you didnt mean to. Do not feel guilt for that. Some people will tell you it was irresponcible and blah blah blah. Technically it is but EVERYONE makes mistakes and they shouldnt judge you for that. Adoption is a really good option for an unwanted baby. I know you have to carry the baby around with you for 9 months but it is A LOT healtier on your body than abortion or any other means of terminating pregnancy. Think about the baby as well they have just as much right to live as you do. I hope I have helped and if you need help with finding options for adoption such as what you need to do please email me CyndeeAdams11@gmail.com I would love to help you.
2007-12-04 14:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you calling it UNWANTED? C'mon you WANTED to have sex, right? You did not take proper precautions to REDUCE your chance of getting pregnant, right? Now you're making it sound like society "owes" you a way to get out of this situation. Grow up and stop opening your legs and letting the football team in! There's only one way to NOT GET PREGNANT -- keep legs closed. How would you feel is someone (with the power that is) would ask the question: What should I do with this UNWANTED girl besides cutting her head off? That's what you are saying about this poor defenseless human being. Take the pregnancy to completion and give your all to bring up this child. Yes, you and the guy who gave you this "unwanted" pregnancy. That's the price one pays for unwise or stupid choices. You WANTED to get laid. You got laid. Now here's the PRIZE! SURPRISE! Follow the link below. Maybe they can help.
2007-12-04 14:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put your baby up for adoption. There are a lot of couples that can not have children and would give anything to have a baby. You can be that person to make that couple happy and your baby will be well taken care of.
Keep your options open because farther a long you come, you may decide to keep your baby. It is your baby and I would hope that you have a family that would love and support your decision to keep it and will help you and the baby get on your feet!!!! Motherhood isn't easy but it is the greatest feeling in the whole wide world!!!
2007-12-04 14:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Noah's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel options are slim. First of all, I don't like it being called unwanted, but prefer the term "unexpected". Or unplanned.
There's 3 real options you have; abortion, adoption, or raising the child by yourself. I prefer the last one, if your local government provides a plan for single unplanned mothers. Most of them don't and just leave you to your devices, which forces you to pick either one of the other two options. Abortion seems the most humane option, were it not that adoptees often carry a huge mental scar with them. Being an adoptee often results in future commitment phobia and paranoia, among other things. Things that are murder to get rid of.
But I'm not a big fan of abortion either. Try to avoid it at all costs.
2007-12-04 14:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I got pregnant at 17 I never wanted kids, much less to be pregnant so young. They change your mind, being pregnant is the most wonderful gift god gave women. You have the ability to carry a child and they grow from YOU. Its an amazing, beautiful process that should never be aborted. If you don't want to be responsible and raise your child then give your child the life it needs and deserves, bless a family that cannot have children. Be someone elses gift from god.
Anyways congradulations on your pregnancy.
2007-12-04 15:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Presley's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are quite a few options, you should check with your doctor and see what his ideas are... But adoption is a definite one.. You can see if friends or family would like to agree to raise the baby, or at least so it gets a loving home..
Hope this Helps,
2007-12-04 14:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give birth to that child & put it up for adoption. Abortion should never be used as a form of birth control. Use the pill or condoms. Take mature responsibility for your actions. Get your tubes tied if you don't want any children!!!!!!
2007-12-04 14:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you didnt want the baby u should have used protection or you shouldnt have laid down you're probably young so i take it as you didnt know it better but you know about getting pregnant and all have the baby and give it a close relative that will take care of it if not then adoption is the next step but i promise you if have that abortion you're going to regret it. use your head
2007-12-04 14:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is this unwanted is what you need to ask yourself first then think about adoption and then maybe a family member or friend who cant have children, you have to really make sure you don't want this wonderful Innocent child that didn't ask to be here just as much as you didn't ask for it to be here.just follow ypur heart!
2007-12-04 14:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Miss.Terry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well adoption seems logical if you don't want an abortion, but then you still have to go through the whole pregnancy and might change your mind.
Think seriously before considering any options.
good luck
2007-12-04 14:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋