my best friend got mad at me for telling her mom she was going out with a guy. she didnt even get in trouble for it. i actually helped her cuz now she doesnt have to date behind her moms back. she says i ruined her life. sometimes i think that if she said that to me tat i shouldnt be friends with her. but its been almost a month and i still cant get over it. we were BEST friends. she was really the b est friend i ever had. all the good times and jokes we had. i remember that every single day.and wat really gets to me is thatwhen i met her she was all preppy and nice and sweet and then she met my other best friend and she changed her and took her away from me. this is a relly long story if ure really interested in helping and want to hear more details, email polishxchik318@sbcglobal.net
2007-12-04 13:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well that happened to me but my best friend eventually got over it. The fight i had made us stronger.
just give her time to cool off.
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2007-12-04 13:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by lil bittt:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should she be mad at you for telling her mom about the b/f? Maybe... you knew she was keeping this from her mom and you told her mom? She probably felt like you betrayed her. Maybe she had a logical reason for keeping it from her mom? Either way, that's the past and you are trying to move on right? I would say it's a trust issue with her now. Ask her to spend 20-30 minutes with you so you can explain/discuss what happened and if she still doesn't want to talk to you ... then you'll back off and leave her alone.
If she grants you this 20-30 minutes explain your reasons for telling her mom (i'm assuming you had a reason?) and that you're sorry you betrayed her trust. Also, remind her of how you two were such great friends and how you don't want to lose her over this.
If after you've given her all your heartfelt reasons she still doesn't want to have anything to do with you, you need to let it go. She has probably changed since she's been hanging out with the "new friend" so there may be nothing you can do. But you need to try. Best of luck to you.
2007-12-04 21:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look u should try to be friends wit her
if shes just not accepting ur friendship then don't be her friend anymore
i don't understand why she thinks u ruined her life
her mom had to find out sometime and its not like she even got in trouble
her mom knoing is the best thing cuz her mom would've been mad if ur friend never told her at all
2007-12-04 21:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u have a toughie i think u maybe should go up to her and just say " i think it has been long enough i miss my best friend so much u have no idea" i mean if she was ur best friend she would want to be friends w/ u again. if she just walks away when u say that she is not a good friend. so good luck hope my advice helps
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2007-12-04 21:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by liddybuggy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was mad at you because now, her mom will pester her about her Boyfriend. I don't think that would be a big enough reason to not be friends anymore. And, do you consider this just another hot gossip spot??? You sure are treating it like that.
2007-12-04 21:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Eva~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should of keepin your yap shut but it is always good to be honest. and if she cant get over it than she isnt a good friend. but you wernt being fair by telling her mom without your friends permission. she has a right to be mad. But not THIS mad. I mean that is rediculos. but next time keep your pie hole shut and ask your friend.
2007-12-04 21:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really was ur best friend she would never say 'your ruining me life'. never! my friend just got mad at her friend for tellin her mom that she went out on a date w/ a guy and then she got over it in one day haha so if she's ur real friend she wouldnt say something like that and wouldnt hold it against you. you deserve better!
2007-12-04 21:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have told her mom.. but you didn't mean any harm, you meant to help her. so try your best to apologize, and let her know that you know it was a shady thing to do..
2007-12-04 21:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you that you should not told that to nobody els that make you a bad friend. BACK STABER!
2007-12-04 21:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by edgar l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then shes not a true friend,tell her to fck herself and move on.
2007-12-04 21:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋