just happened to me. and, misery loves company so i'd love to hear some stories.
2007-12-04 13:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jeff S Phoenix_AM 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hehe. i should have just put this in R&S huh? just got screwed over my roommate...who put in her 30 day notice, just told me yesterday....now i have until the 31st to pack, find a place, clean this place, and move.
i just cancelled my flight home to boise to spend christmas with my family so i can move. woo-hoo
2007-12-04 13:48:39 · update #1
thanks guys. ((princess))
follow up for anyone. think it is acceptable to hold on to grudges to the grave? cause it might not be healthy, but i have a couple
2007-12-04 13:52:04 · update #2
you guys soften the blow....again. love this place!
its ok...at least when they ask, "do atheists celebrate christmas?" i can say that i do not. at least not this year. thanks for the hugs.
2007-12-04 13:58:43 · update #3
Aw Jeff, I'll never leave you. (((Jeff)))
I'll Edit in just a sceond when I pick he best instance.
When i was in high school, I had my best friend Daniel. He had the biggest crush on me, but we had dated before and it didn't work out. Well, he and I had this mutual friend Don, and I really really liked him. So i told Daniel how I felt. Well, I said"Don't tell him how I feel unless he tells you he likes me too, cause I don't want to piss his girl off." Well, then Daniel proceeded to tell me that Don had a lot of girls going, he was cheating on his girlfriend and all that stuff. I was put off....well, some months later, Don and i ended up together, and Don told me that he had always liked me, Daniel just told him that we were thinking about getting back together, and Don wasn't really my type, and Don backed off....which was a lie! So I told Daniel where to shove it. And ya know....Don and i were together for nearly two years. I'll never forgive that idiot for keeping me away from him. Don and i would probably be together now if not for my other issue that you know about....hehe.
That's it. Drama followed me in high school.
No, it's not healthy. But get over it in your own time love. ^_^
Poor Jeff.....What a jerk. I am so so sorry you have to miss your family for Christmas.....(((((jeff))))))
2007-12-04 13:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Ninja 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just the other day, but she doesn't realise it yet....
Someone very dear to me, a mother figure and confidant of mine started acting rather oddly lately. She recently miscarried several times, her relationship has gone sour and she has understandably become bitter. I've been there for her, in person and in the hours and hours of phone calls. However, she's become very destructive and is trying to undermine my relationship with my fiance. She tried everything - telling me to cheat, saying he was cheating, saying he would cheat etc etc.
The last straw came when my finance and I helped her out at the factory she works at. She started a rumor that my finance was angry at a man who works there because he looked at me (the guy never even saw me). My fiance didn't even know the guy existed and never met or saw him. The other workers there were all friends of this guy, so when they heard that someone supposedly wanted to bash their friend, it got hostile.
It could have ended rather badly. It was a horrible underhanded thing for her to do. My relationship with my fiance is the most important thing in my life...he comes first, so I won't tolerate anyone who resorts to lies and maliciousness to destroy us.
I'm sorry you're having a rough time ((((hugs)))))
Edit: That happened a few months back, but it wasn't until a few weeks ago that I had all the information about what had gone on and all the pieces fell into place...
2007-12-04 13:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're adults now, so i could honestly wish you should get alongside on respectable words. i do no longer think of i could go scope them out for friendships, yet once you have been the two at a occasion, then it may be large to speak approximately college stuff with out stating the drama. There are human beings I even have contacted with by using MySpace, yet I have no objective of IMing them or calling them. that must be an intrusion. Y'all have separate lives now. i could wager you're probable extra useful off only assembly with them by using mutual friends.
2016-10-10 06:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your roommate screwed you over! I hope everything works out for you! And karma will get your ex-roommate back! For you enjoyment here is my story, it isn't in full length or as descrptive as i could tell but that would take a long time because there are so many details.
this girl was on a downward sprial so i helped her out. She referred to me as hers. She backstabbed my bestfriend so i started to drift from her. she then kept sending me all these possesive txt messages. Called me while on private and i answered and she hung up she called back and i didn't answer because it was annoying. Then she sent me a txt message saying what the hell so i changed my number. Some of the other creepy things she did was say that the song umbrella was me singing to her and the song says come into me and it is about a guy and female in a relationship so it freaked me out, i cant listen to that song with out be sickened. She dresses very butch like. She kinda of stalked me at my school. But it is all good now because if she talks to me i can get her arested. there was a lot of things besides this that she did but i am not going to list them all because that would take forever!
well i hope your week gets better! i dont believe in god but i celebrate christmas, i like to not for the religious values but for bringing people together showing people you care for them and stuff!
2007-12-04 14:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by /\/\@GG!3 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was two years ago when i was in college...this roomate of mine actually went out with my ex bf and she told everyone else about the details and what not, except me!!! While i was supposed to the best friend, the classmate and the roomate!!! I felt so betrayed...i moved out of hostel and stayed back at home. Hope it make you feel better. =)
--->i know it's just an ex...but still...she was my bestest friend... she shouldn't have done that.
2007-12-04 15:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Dickinsonian 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a stalker and he was great with computers too' he distroyed my mom's computer my brothers and mine all in one day..He was a guy who wanted to get married and we refused my friend and me ' and bam' he turned out lifes up side down,Whats crazy is ' he;s still on yahoo' and i pray we won;t run into each other or his avaters as he has many.,
2007-12-04 15:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I met on a blind date, someone I thought of as a good friend fixed us up. We all ended up living in an apartment together, and she decided that she was going to try to "take" him from me. Turned out to be a pattern with her...but yeah, that ended that friendship immediately.
2007-12-04 13:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me. She liked my boyfriend and invited us to her new years party and then she made up stories that he has sex in her living room. And spread it around....my church! It ended right there and then. That happened a year ago and I still not over it. I mean, I dont go around whinning about it but evertime i see her....I wanna dent her forehead.
2007-12-04 13:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
my ex and her hooked up behind my back. end of story
2007-12-04 13:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋