should i be mad?

Question

i was adopted my parents said they couldn't take care of me and that i was sort of an accident they had my sister two years before me and kept her and they could of kept me but they decicded not to i guess so im kind of jelous of my sister but they (the ones who gave me up)tell me not to be and i get really mad because they say that and they kept my sister but gave me up and my dad (one who gave me up) doesn't even like me that much. i always cry about it but they never seem to notice.i lived with them for a few years to be with my sister but i never seemed good enough for them ,they put me second and they made me feel like i dont belong on the world but she does ,like shes some kind of princess i dont know if its just me please tell me what you think

Answer 1

I think that your feelings are justified, but I also think that you should speak to a professional that can help you deal with these feelings before they affect the rest of your life.

Answer 2

I would not be mad. I understand why you are upset. I think I would be glad that they gave me up. Do not blame your sister for how they act. You would think that they would treat you better and try to make up for lost time. If this is how they treat you I don't know if having a relationship with them is a good idea. You deserve to be treated better than that. You have your parents that raised and loved you. I would cherish them more because of the others. If you cry all the time you need to get away from them. You do not need to be upset everyday. Where are your adoptive parents at?

Answer 3

i'd be mad to like a jelousy turned into anger issue.

Answer 4

i think you should just let it go...don't ever try to please them. if they can't see that you're as much as their daughter as she is...then waste precious moments of your life being sad and getting angry at something that has a big chance of never happening...i don't mean to sound mean or anything to that extent. just don't waste your time. live your life pleasing you.