what's the best way to keep going and ignore them?
2007-12-04 13:20:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sweetie I'll tell you what my father told me once- good piece of advice. "nobody wants to see you do well", that even includes your family- I know that you dont want to beleive that but its the truth- SO YOU HAVE TO DO THE BEST FOR YOURSELF!! forget what anybody else thinks.
2007-12-04 13:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Preston 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that way all the time. I just tell myself if they can't see why I'm worthy of their love and presence, it's their loss, not mine. I just live the best life I can, and instead of bad revenge, I do sweet revenge. Sweet revenge is finding joy in living life, living the best life I can, seek the goodness in it, and though who wish me miserable, just don't let them win the day by giving them the satisfaction of seeing me miserable.
I believe in God, so that helps me tremendously, to focus more on getting my spiritual life straight. But I came to realize, too, a lot of people I desire companionship with are people I need not surround myself with. It's better to be alone than be in bad company!
If you need to talk or need a new friend, I'm here!
((((HUGS))))).
2007-12-04 13:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Яɑɩɳɓɵw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself how great it will be to prove everyone wrong.
And remember that no matter how real it may seem that everyone is against you, there is always one person who will stand by your side no matter what. And when you do prove the others wrong, you can share that pride with that one person.
Been there done that.
2007-12-04 13:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start singing the song from Mary Poppins A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down.
2007-12-04 13:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. I mean you have to ignore them. Don't even look their way. Cut off all contact with them. If they know your number and keep calling you, like they call me, ignore the call and let it go to voicemail. Don't even listen to the voicemail; delete it. I mean just plainly ignore them and eventually they will leave you alone.
2007-12-04 15:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn a hard heart, for a heart of stone is harder to chip at then a soft one. When the world turns against you, seek out those on your side. There is always one who sides with you, you just have to find them. If there seems to be nobody, write or draw. It allows you to make things better. Trust me.
2007-12-04 13:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn to the people who still love me, if no one did then I would keep my head held high and be the best I can be. That would be tough since nobody wants to be lonely..
2007-12-04 13:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
by doing just that..ignoring them...there are plenty of other ppl out there who will not be against you..and last but not least..you have you who is for you and that's really all you need!
2007-12-04 13:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Somebody's Afta Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing the right thing and living so that when people see how you live, they will know they were wrong about you.
2007-12-04 13:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by BT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i use to throw things against the wall. but now i crochet, put in a BBC comedy and drink dr. peppers. one way, the first way, causes fear and the other way, the new way makes nice blankets. cheers!!
2007-12-04 13:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋