Remember, stay true to passive-aggressive form, you can't look guilty : )
2007-12-04 13:09:11 · 12 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-12-04 13:15:06 · update #1
you biatch......i love you.....
2007-12-04 13:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by scottish football ....nuff said 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to remain in a situation which uses a negative personality aspect? The best (passive-aggressive)(staying true to theme herein) way however, cry, not simply cry, how about a screaming fit, where you verbally attack them (passive-aggressive style) for mistreating you. Honestly feel like a victim? Be absolutly convinced that you are right and that they are abusive. Passive-aggressive? Is it not a term for people who take and take and take and then overreact to a minor stimulus? The best way to deal with unappreaciation would be to ask if you are doing right for them if you are "good enough" for their expectations. This approach is only a speculation and is not a substitute for advice from a relationship counselor. This is just a common reaction and I have personally had success with the second which is a non-passive/aggressive approach which usually leads to a complement instead of a confirmation of irrationally held beliefs. The only drawback to this is if the person's response confirms your beliefs the results may be depressing to say the least. My conclusion is this, it is not best to be passive-aggressive. Express your anger! When I was young I held stuff in then one day someone said the wrong thing. An annoying light insult, I came unglued, showed absolutely no class, gave a terrible beating to him, and felt guilty for it for a long time. If you are serious about being passive-aggressive talk to a mental health counselor about your struggles. Life is too short to have treatable illnesses.
2007-12-04 13:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I thought passive aggressive was bad?
It's an example of passive aggressive?
Ok. A passive aggressive person who felt unappreciated would become angry, acting out in some way. Muttering. Slamming things. But they would not communicate the cause of the anger. And they would probably continue to perform the task that they feel unappreciated doing. Getting more and more angry. lol
Eventually they would scream "I'm never going to cook supper for you again!"
At which point the victim of the passive aggressive person would say "huh?"
2007-12-04 13:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, I don't know what passive-aggressive is.
Maybe I do it already, but I don't know it.
Is that when I give people the silent treatment?
2007-12-04 15:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um why do you want to be passive-aggressive?
2007-12-04 13:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by tl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you cannot really be passive-aggressive. Sometimes you have to be confident and tell someone you how you feel.
2007-12-04 13:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by ponyexpress304 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-19 04:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious as to why you would take this stance ....why not just say you are feeling as if you are not appreciated ......unless it's not so and you just want to stir the other person up ...?and maybe try and make them feel guilty.....Hmm
2007-12-04 13:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will not stand for your inconsideracy and unthoughtful actions toward me. This is unacceptible and I will not take it anymore. Go find somone else to feed your ego on.
not mean but not too nice.
2007-12-04 13:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Say look im pretty sure that it was not your intention but I wanted to let you know that I really feel unappreciated..
2007-12-04 13:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he/she makes an unkind remark, just tell them "aww, you sure know how to make me feel great." then hug/kiss them.
Sarcasm laced with saccharine sprinkled with guilt works for me.
2007-12-04 13:14:14 · answer #11 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 9⤊ 3⤋