I know that having kids is a natural progression of a relationship after marriage, my question is this, do you think children put a strain on your primary relationship causing most to fail? Would your relationship be better and stronger without children, so you could have more time as a couple? Dose anyone regret having children period, and wishes they would have remained child free?
Is it selfish not to want to share your spouse/significant other, and want all of their attention and affection? If you were to leave your marriage for some unforeseen reason, would you even consider having more children with another woman or date a woman who has small children?
I love my kids but I sometimes feel selfish and want undivided attention and affection, you know, my wife back all to myself, me and her against the world. Am I wrong to feel that way sometimes and do any other people feel this way?
2007-12-04
12:22:16
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married 4 years, together 9 with 2 kids, 2 year old and 8 month old.
2007-12-04
14:52:05 ·
update #1