Sorry for the personal question!
Before I got pregnant my husband and I made love at least every day. My sex drive has been much lower for most of my pregnancy, and now (27 weeks) it's pretty much nonexistent. I don't like it at all! I want to have sex, I just don't... *want* to, you know? And I feel so bad for my husband, he tries so hard to get me in the mood but it just doesn't work. Can anyone who has gone through this tell me how you dealt with it? I know It'll be fine after I have the baby eventually, but what do I do about right now?
2007-12-04 11:12:55 · 6 answers · asked by Sky 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have the same problem... only I do want to sometimes when he isn't around.. of course! We have what I call sympathy sex. I do feel bad for him... it isn't his fault I don't want to and I hate to see him suffer. There are other things you can do, I don't have to go into detail... Just do what is best for the two of you and tell him to hang in there.
2007-12-04 11:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had some advice. I feel exactly the same. I heard some women love sex right now. I'm 30 weeks and can barely move the way I used to. Sex just isn't appealling and I feel so bad for my awsomely sexy husband. My mind wants to but my body doesn't!! Luckily my hubby been understanding and only asks for it once a week or so. He's really stressed at work so hes not in the mood that much either!
2007-12-04 11:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked my doctor for advice because I feel bad for my hubby too. She said to not worry and that' it's normal and not to have a lot of sex anyways because orgasms can bring on early delivery. I told my husband that he has two hands and he can use them. Sorry!
2007-12-04 11:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till the baby is born & interupting the moments together you will be lucky to have sex twice a year.
from a blokes point of view, ok sex is important but so is a loving relationship which im sure all of you have.
2007-12-04 11:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i,m 30 weeks w/Me and Rob's first it's a boy due Feb10th his Name is Dakota Robert and have not had a sex drive for a long time but as i told my hubby it's not cause of him but i can tell you watching porn really helps sorry for such a graphic word but it really does help if you and your ol man watch it good luck
2007-12-04 11:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have a low sex drive, it's nothing you can do but satisfy him until you have the baby.
2007-12-04 11:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lipz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋