She was my girlfriend for 2 weeks she dump me for her ex and we became friend. But a month later she said we cant be friend. I asked is it me or you boyfriend she said ''mostly him'', does this basically mean its all becaue of him?.
2007-12-04 10:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, it will be his doing. Guess he was jealous that you two went out and has told her not to have any contact with you at all.
2007-12-04 10:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just newly finished then feelings will still be raw for the both of you. I think it may be best for you both to give each other a bit space and let her decide if she wants to be bossed around by her new man. If indeed it is her new man that is coming between you then try confiding in a joint friend and tell that person your concerns so that they can keep an eye on the situation and warn her if it gets out of hand. That way you do not look like an ex who is interfering in her life. If you still have feelings for this girl maybe now is the time to start working through them and concentrate on some thing else. If you are meant to be with this girl you will be. Things have a habit of working themselves out so i am sure that this time next year you will of wondered what all the fuss was about
2007-12-04 19:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like it to me.
Although, the fact that she said "mostly" is very important as she is implying that she thinks the same also and supporting her new boyfriend.
Whether it is his idea or not, she is happy to go along with it and you have to respect that.
Move on is the only option i'm afraid.
2007-12-04 18:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,my wife had a freind/neighbour for years,then she married another of our freinds and she just stopped visiting,dropped her head when passing,we later found out he had told her he dosent like her comming round as he thinks she is discussing him (alki) and our other freinds moved in together,but after trying the same trick,she told him to move out as she is not having him tell her who she can see or be freinds with,sorry but even the strongest of minds can be affected by a control freak.
2007-12-05 03:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your own girlfriend and stop taking other peoples ones
2007-12-04 18:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by ummm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it's because of him alright.
2007-12-04 19:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by scorpiogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its because of him.
2007-12-04 18:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋