Why do I miss a guy that is clearly incompatible with me?
2007-12-04 09:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How long have you known this guy? Why is he incompatible with you? Do you have any other guy friends? What is it about this particular guy that you find so attractive? Is it a challenge to see if there are SOME things you could have in common?
Does he miss you?
2007-12-04 10:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by claire b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been only a short time that you have been separated, it is very common to miss something or someone that is not good for you if it is still fresh. Unfortunately the only cure for the pain is time. It may seem hard to believe but at some point way down the road it will not at all anymore. In the mean time try not to focus on the person. Try meeting new and more interesting people if you can. Good Luck
2007-12-04 10:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that there is something you like about him. But just one thing. If you miss a person in your life, he might fill that gap. If he is strong and protective, you might miss your dad. If he seems to understand you, you might miss your friend. By the way, when people use words like "clearly" or "obviously", it isn't really clear or obvious. Clear to who? If you just want to make yourself crazy, keep thinking about him. You can like him as a friend. Until someone else gets in the picture.
2007-12-04 10:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! I'm Mia W., and I am actually a registered psychologist. So, it's your lucky day! Um, well, when I was younger, I had the exact same problem. I kept thinking about him, and thinking about him. But, instead, I finally just forgot about him. Okay? God is preparing someone special for you, so why would you need to worry about it? He's creating someone so PERFECT for you right now that you're not even gonna remember the guy you're thinking about's name when you see this new guy. Just wait, your time will come.
if you need anything else, this is my specialty. I run a practice for children/singles/dating...so, email me!
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2007-12-04 10:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you two are incompatible? What makes you think so? Things not going well? Or are you just assuming?
think about it...give him a chance. Or give us some more info so we can give you a longer better answer. =)
2007-12-04 10:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is incompatable with anyone else, if you care about someone and miss them then there is nothing wrong with you
2007-12-04 10:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by marikai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you like attention
2007-12-04 09:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not alone, my ex fiance tried to kill me and burn my house down, i miss him though. its because u think of only good times, and not their flaws
2007-12-04 09:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by \m/ Battle Metal \m/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with you! you jus miss him♥ Its okay!
2007-12-04 09:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract
2007-12-04 10:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Apple Tart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋