Please dont get offended this is only a question and i just want a answer thats all ok.?

Question

Now i saw on tv where these 14years old girls got kicked off the school bus for kissing. I personal think that 14 is too young to be showing any type of affection to a person you like. THIS is how i feel maybe im right maybe im wrong. My question is. At what age did you know you were GAY? Do you think that 14 is a bit young. I know people experiment when young so im just asking. At what age did you decide you were going to be with the same sex?

Im straight and the parents of these kids are really weird they are upset that there kids got kicked off. Would they have had a change of heart if it was a boy?

I SAID THAT AT14 TO ME ITS TO YOUNG TO SHOW affection i dont care if its a girl /boy, boy/dog whatever 14 is too young to me. Im asking your opinion

Answer 1

I agree that 14 is too young to even be experimenting, but the do. The way I see it, is this.... if you see/hear someone else talk about or do it, you become curious... When I was young, there JUST wasn't any of my peers that were open about it, which meant that... hey.. IT'S NOT OKAY TO BE THAT WAY.

I'm so annoyed because people feel like its so important to EXPRESS THE FACT THAT THEY ARE THE WAY THEY ARE, BECAUSE IT'S THE RIGHT THING FOR THEM.. AND THEN THEY DON'T HAVE TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT IT... but what about the people THAT DO NOT BELIEVE IN IT AND DO FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT.

in other words, what makes a gay person's feeling so much more important than a heterosexual persons? I'm heterosexual, but I DO NOT WEAR THAT ON MY SLEEVE!

so, f'g twisted....

Answer 2

I knew for certain by the time I was 14 that I was gay.

You say that 14 is too young to be kissing on a bus and you may have a point. The question is whether a 14 year old boy kissing a 14 year old girl would have been kicked off the bus. I suspect not. That is the kind of homophobic discrimination that young gay people have to face growing up - all the time being shown that they are second class citizens.

Answer 3

Should a heterosexual (boy/girl) couple be kicked off the school bus for kissing? Is that too young? I don't think so. Same rules should apply.

Some people know their orientation (straight or gay) early on- some people are "curious" for a long time- some people change their mind at some point later- or finally decide not to pretend any more. Some folks never choose one gender over the other. Why should it matter?

Answer 4

I am not homosexual but do have a lot of friends that are. I grew up in a rural area and was way behind the other kids when it came to sex. I was playing barbies while they were making out, lol. I guess I was about 14 or 15 when I started to like and notice boys in school. I would assume it would be the same for all teenagers whether they are straight, bi, or homosexual. Whatever age you begin to notice and develop your own personal sexuality which is different for everyone.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

they have to make a fuss about those two girls kissing, and kick them off the bus. otherwise they would have to allow the next couple to kiss...and then the ones that want to kiss, with a hug...and then the next ones want to...

they have to draw the line on the PDA's on the bus.

there is nothing "wrong" with two fourteen year old girls having a romantic attraction for one another, if that is how they feel. but in my opinion, fourteen year olds should take it easy as far as sex. people are all different at age 14...age is just a number...but most 14 teen year olds are too young yet for any real heavy duty sexual activity...that is just what i think.

if i saw those two smooching on the bus, it wouldn't bother me, unless they were being crude or something about it.

Answer 7

It all depends on the person for when they realize(not 'decide') they are gay...as for kissing on the school bus... gay or straight most schools are against PDA so...yeah...but i have notices that stright couples get away with it more often than gay couples...which sucks.....but...i dont think 14 is too young to be kissing...considering the fact that i was about that age when i had my 1st kiss...

Answer 8

I didn't know I was gay until 22...when I was 14 I was still kissing boys uhl...lol just kidding guys...But I think 14 is waaay to young to be kissing anyone in a school-type setting.

Answer 9

I knew by age 7. Honestly kids are getting older, younger and younger these days. I'm not surprised to hear 14 year olds kissing. Only they know if they are truly gay or were just having fun.

Answer 10

I never "decided" to be with the same sex...I knew a lot younger that i was going to be with the same sex...

14 is too young to be doing anything sexual...gay or straight...