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i'm 21 years old and i'm really thinking that i cant to complete my life and go on soo i'm really thinking imust do that

plz tell me how

plz

2007-12-04 09:28:56 · 8 answers · asked by ahmed_14_1 2 in Social Science Psychology

8 answers

Before you do anything rash, do one thing: Visit a hospital and go from ward to ward visiting terminally ill children and adults and then see how selfish and self centered and foolish throwing away what they can never have...

2007-12-04 09:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You go straight to your Mum, RIGHT NOW, and tell her you feel like ending your life and you need help.
DO IT NOW.She would live the rest of her days with a broken, withered heart if her beloved son died of misery by his own hand.
She loves you, many other people love you (just look at the response on this panel -- and we are all STRANGERS to you!)
You are young, and life is hard. But how else would you have your life to be?
By this life you are able to learn and grow and struggle and really experience what it means to be alive. If it was all so easy you would be weak and shallow, like a baby has an easy life and is unable to think or eat or walk on its own.
You do not wish for a life like that.
So you must think how you can change things for yourself to feel strong again.
I am sorry you are going thru this, but please know EVERYONE at some point or another goes thru this same feeling. You are not alone.
Go to your mum, and smell her hair and look at her hands that have cared for you. If nothing else, stay here for your mum who would rather die in flames than lose her child.
You can hold on. You CAN.

2007-12-04 09:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by swanngranny 3 · 0 0

I don't want to make you feel worse or tell you that you are being selfish or anything like that because i don't know what has made you feel this way. I want to tell you this story. Hope it helps you to make the best decision.

When i was 18 i had a friend who was like a brother to me and was very close to all of my family. He was always happy and made everyone else around him happy.
His sister found him one day in his room after having taken an overdose. He had not expected anyone to come home and he was saved. Due to the fact that he had taken pills he was very ill. He was hooked up to all manner of machines, was shaking and looked like death. He recovered and after a while was the same person as before or so everyone thought.

While on the outside he was the life and soul of the party on the incide he was obviously hurting. We were all on a night out one night. He went to one friends house after and i went to another. For some reason i walked a different way home that night and in the morning i found out that he had hung himself using on his way home. A stranger found him early in the morning, cut him down and covered him with a blanket until the police arrived.

We were all devestated and no one knows to this day why he did it or why he felt like he couldn't speak to anyone when he had a lot of very close friends.

I still see his mother and sister and they have never been the same since. The hurt and guilt that she feels is overwhelming and i think the worst thing for her is not knowing why and feeling like she couldn't help her son.

If you can't speak to a family member then there are places that you can speak to people anonymously. Please try to get some help and speak to someone about your problems. I'm not an expert but i am a stranger and it may help you to talk to someone who you don't know. E-mail me if you need to and be strong.

2007-12-04 10:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0 1

its called a psychologist and zoloft. tons of people think of that. I my self tried to. Then one day i decided that i don't want to be a loser and im not someone who gives up. so i sought out a psychologist. You're not a loser. You can get past it. But not without help. Understand that its not your fault for the situation and you can and need to get help in order to get past it and be strong. there are tons of hotlines you can call and talk to about it. i think there might even be one about 1-800- suicide

2007-12-04 09:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by RedBluePenis 1 · 0 0

if you are asking then you truly want help. If you didn't want to live on some level (and seek help) you wouldn't have come on here where you know people would try to talk you out of it.

See a doctor, they can help you live and be happy again.

2007-12-04 09:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by pip 7 · 0 0

LISTEN!!! You must get help now! There is nothing in this physical world that cannot be resolved enough to take your life. Life is presious and yours is no different. Call 911 now and explain to them your situation and they will put you in contact with a counselor who can help you. Please erase these thoughts.

2007-12-04 09:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by kachao 2 · 1 0

There's an old poem that goes...."By the sewer I lived...By the sewer I died...Some thought it was murder...But it's only sewer-side....Don't lay Ur life down in the gutter.

2007-12-04 09:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

hi, i'm also on the brink. i-i don't want to help anyone else, 'cause then i'll feel bad, so please please try to hang on, ok? if you need to talk about anything, ANYTHING, email me: berriezncreamfaerie@yahoo.com, ok? i know that i'm a complete stranger, but people like us need to stick together. hold on man, it's ok. i'm here.

2007-12-04 09:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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