I want to just get it over with and fight her because i no its bound to happen any way so should i just tell her to come out side and just say come on you want to fight me lets fight then?
2007-12-04 08:35:18 · 36 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok i have tried talking to her like 3 times and she stead want to act the same way the thing is we used to be best friends but she moon and got older and went to high school and let kids soup her head up not to like me so im think i just gone hve to fight her because this childish stuff is not going to stop no matter because she is to childish!!!!
2007-12-04 08:45:48 · update #1
but i have confoted her she dont listen she just is a ignorant little girl and im getting tired of it if i do try to talk to her she going to sat alright and do it again like she did last time i confronted her
2007-12-04 08:57:25 · update #2
Ashley my darling I would take an axe and cut her head off, BUT you are young, what she says about you says more for the people who are listening to the gossip!!! I would write her a letter and tell her the next time you meet, you will have a big strong man with you, or better still if you are in the same school, report it as it is bullying = boy does she deserve a king up the asssssssss. Do not stoop to this half-wit. Bet she is jealous of you and if your mates listen, dump them too.
2007-12-04 08:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and be assertive. Spend half a few minutes or so on thinking about what you are going to say so that it goes well and you've made your point.
She probably isn't very intelligent anyway, and probably just talks trash. Where she can be a tart, you can make a point without causing further trouble or doing something you may regret. Try to keep your calm.
This is entirely your decision. The only advice I have for you is to think about what you really want to do, and/ or the consequences and how you'll feel about it afterwards.
Whether it's through email, IM, letter, face to face, make sure you think about it and you are in a calm, state. You want to make the choice when you're in your right mind. This goes for all decisions in life.
Good luck in your decision!
2007-12-04 08:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg... tell her get a life. What is she talking about u for? This is so juvenile. i say dont fight because if you fight and end up hurting her, you could end up with community service, a police record, suspended from school. U can try the calm, what is the problem approach but i say, just be like eh whatever!
2007-12-04 08:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little Jerry Springer to me.
If she is talking about you, that says more about her then it does about you. If people believe her, that says more about them than it does about you.
Instead of being one of those people who makes the world less classy, why don't you try to be one of the ones who does the right thing and just ignore her. It may not have the immediate satisfaction of beating the snot out of her, but in the long term, it is people of high character who elevate themselves and those around them, while those people like the girl across the street fade away into obscurity.
2007-12-04 08:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jimee77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That same sh*t is happening to me except that its a girl in my school. She still talks about me but I haven't fought her yet. I'm a little nervous because I've never had a fight in my life before nor have I seen one in person. =/ Anyways don't fight her directly just yet go up to he and ask her what the h*ll her problem is and why does she talk about you (hater,jealously etc) and then depending on what happens you'll know what to do. Good luck! =]
2007-12-04 08:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Uzma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu don't need to fight her, don't step down to her level. All you've got to do is talk to her seriously and asked her why she's doing this to you? Tell her to stop talking about you and mind her own business, but be serious enough when to do this, when you say it, you really mean.
2007-12-04 08:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually heard her talking about you, or has friends been saying she has? What you need do, is go in a nice manner and ask her if she has a problem with you, and how to resolve it. Could be someone else has the problem and trying to get you to resolve it for them so they don't have to.
2007-12-04 08:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to achieve anything by physically fighting with her. Just confront her calmly and tell her to knock it off. Maybe you can talk to your parents and they can talk to her parents.
Fighting isn't the answer! Ever!!
2007-12-04 08:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard before you go confront her so she actually hears you. Maybe she will get the point and neither of you will have to fight.
2007-12-04 08:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is such a freaking waste of time. Talk it out. Plan what you're going to say and if she continues to be a *****, avoid her at all costs.
2007-12-04 08:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Maneerae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋