okay see im a gay male and my boyfriend is in florda for some collage thing.. we are writting to each other by e- mail and he asked if i was a vergin i havent replied yet but i dont know if i am ..a long time ago i had a boyfriend but we didnt have sex i gave him oral but didnt let him give it to me.... if i only gave oral am i stll a vergin??
2007-12-04 07:41:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am 22 years old
2007-12-04 07:59:58 · update #1
Ask your boyfriend what does he consider to be a virgin. Tell his what you told us, then he can decide.
2007-12-04 07:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Candy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, are you from the US? Then you should know that back in 1998 it was declared by the highest authority that oral sex is not sex. Ha!
2007-12-04 17:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by bill j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he asked, he must suspect you're a virgin. Follow the consensus, and tell him what you told us, it's no big deal. He probably likes that you are, 'cause he likes you.
2007-12-04 16:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mike P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, half-heartedly. Many would say yes, technically a BJ, head and dick-sucking all involve "losing it" so to speak.
2007-12-04 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he means. In my book, gay men are virgins who have not received anal sex, but I am old-fashioned!
2007-12-04 15:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you did... just say you only gave oral before
2007-12-04 15:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes you are a virgin... so tell him you're a virgin but you've done oral before.
2007-12-05 04:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are a virgin.
And I would not worry too much about it.
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-12-04 16:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're still a virgin since you haven't had intercourse. 2D
2007-12-04 16:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a virgin cuz noone has entered you..
2007-12-04 15:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋