I've been dating this guy for awhile and he is so sweet. I'm in love with him even though he makes me made sometimes. I'm 17 and a virgin but I'm ready to give it up, he doesn't preasure me or ask me to, but he has said he wants to be my first, and I want him to. The only problem is I'm nervous, what should I do?
2007-12-04 07:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Relax! Don't try to make things happen just cause your ready for them to. Let the occasion happen naturally, don't plan it or anything cause it takes away from the memory. It will help you to not be nervous as well cause you won't know when it's coming!
Go Slow when the time comes... I'd tell you why, but there's a lot of others that read these things, so you're just going to have to trust me!
Good Luck!
2007-12-04 07:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by KiKo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are really ready to give it up, not just b/c you love him. Do you know how many more guys your going to love.... I don't know how special you take your virginity, but if you guys ever break up would you regret doing it? In my opinion, if your nervous, then wait.. you waited this long... Most girls are like 13 when they give it up.That is really pure to still be a virgin, make sure he is worth it. I know you have overpowering feelings for him, but look at him as a over all person, pros and cons, and then you make a decision on what you want to do.
2007-12-04 15:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make love to him. both of u sound nice.nothing to be nervous about when it comes to expressing ur love to someone.
2007-12-04 15:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lots of things!
I'll take my ten points now, please and thank you! ;)
2007-12-04 16:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by skaizun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋