It's been a week since he contacted me, he said he needed a break because we constantly agrue all the time and he tired of all the headaches. He told me he will always love me but I drive him crazy and he needs a little space. I just want to know does time help or what is he thinking..... does he miss me as much as I miss him? I'm going crazy!
2007-12-04 07:14:06 · 24 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh and should I call him today? would that help?
2007-12-04 07:14:50 · update #1
AND yes I have been doing other things like going out to clubs, spending time with friends and doing my school work ...but for some reason reason the more I try to ignore thinking about him the more the CRASH at the end of the day.
2007-12-04 07:24:49 · update #2
Remember this.......Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2007-12-04 07:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At this point nothing will help. Going with a "break" and him needing "a little space"...let me tell you where that leads. Your relationship isn't going all that well at the moment. And all of a sudden this new girl has appeared in his life who seems fun, care free, and interested in him. He wants to see what is up with her, but does not want to give up the security of having someone there if it falls through. Trust me, he will end this soon. And when he does he will not be single for long.
2007-12-04 07:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow! We can't tell you what he is thinking. We're not mind readers! However, he said he needs space and that you are driving him crazy. Guess you are having trouble understanding those words because here you are asking us if you should invade his space and drive him insane. THIS is what he is trying to get away from. Give the guy some space and find a hobby to keep you busy. You are sounding desperate, clingy, and needy and that is exactly what the man has told you he doesn't want!
2007-12-04 07:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While your taking a break do just that! What I mean is your gonna miss him but don't dwell on it. Surround yourself with friends and enjoy a few days to go out or do what you want. Then look at the situation and ask yourself exactly what you want, think about it, then answer your own question. The answer may suprise you!!
2007-12-04 07:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tea Party Patriot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go crazy !!! - Why are you crazy about a guy who could live without you for a week ???? Guys do spring back - he is testing the waters with someone else - trust me - just let him go !! We are all to special to wait for anyone - live your life as if the worst thing has already happened. If you are needy and dependent he will run for the hills - guys like to win over their women - let him have to fight to keep you and you might get him back - but why ??? Keep your chin up and keep punching !!!
2007-12-05 04:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by CommonMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not contact him at all - That will just show him that you are still needy and clingy which is something he doesn't want right now. Focus on yourself for a change - do stuff that you like to do with your friends or by yourself. If he truly wants to be with you, he will contact you. He needs to make the next move though, not you.
2007-12-04 07:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should call him. If he needed the break then he might miss you but not to sound mean he might not since he did say that he was the one that needed the break. I hope that it all works out for the best for you.
2007-12-04 07:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by bnm0044 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too controlling and he's tired of it. He may call you, after he calms down; but if you haven't gotten over your insecurities by then, he's only going to leave again. Instead of wasting your time going crazy, start working on your insecurities!
2007-12-04 07:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy some space, if your arguing all the time then it's probably not a good relationship anyway
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