Does anyone else go through their husbands cell phone statement? Just to be nosy?

Answer 1

Sometimes...I had to stop...he has a particular ex whom he is no longer friends with or evens speaks to, but she feels a need to call him every once in a while....I know he didn't call her, but she calls him and it bothers me to the point of wanting to call her and let her know just whats on my mind (nothing nice at all). I stopped because I can't really control who calls him.

Answer 2

You know...I'm probably the only person on earth who finds little to no use for a cell phone. I have one...but in case the car breaks down or some emergency. I truly make...oh...maybe 3 calls a year and never receive any calls. Why? Because I don't care to talk to anyone other than when I get home. IF I feel like talking.

But...tell you this. Any male or female for that matter that isn't smart enough to NOT use a cell phone while making plans to get together with their lover behind their spouses back deserves everything the divorce court can rape you for and then some.

Answer 3

Yes, I do. And no, it's not to be nosy.

I've caught him out on various occasions cheating in various ways. Texts, calls, porn, etc.

So I feel I have the fullest right to look and check on him. He brought the distrust upon himself.

To the people that say it's wrong, you're either extremely lucky to have a husband that you can trust completely, or you're ignorant! But I REALLY hope it's the first option!

To the lady who looks, go ahead, don't feel bad, and confront him on all suspicious things you find! If there is something you Will definitely find it, just keep your nose, eyes and ears to the ground!!! !!!

Good luck!

Answer 4

When we are home and his mother/sister calls he turns into a pissy baby and is grumpy for the remainder of the day. I know that but I started looking through our statement to get some of my daughters friends phone #'s and it dawned on me that when my husband would call me after his lunch hour it was because his mother would call him at the beginning and he is always a jerk when he calls me after his lunch. I thought it was work and I know now it isn't work but his mother that causes his bad moods.

So when he has a bad attitude or whines I always remember that date and check the bill. Nine times out of 10 it is his mother and although I can't help him I can at least understand.

I do it for no other reason.

Answer 5

Ok let me be honest. My husband is an Army Recuriter so he gets calls all the time from people I dont know the number from. But when he had his own cell phone yes I would go through it just to see what was going on. I like to know whats going on in my house and if I see phone calls or text messages from one person all the time I need to do some further investigations.

Answer 6

I was involved in a relationship for 7 years where my other was seeing others, getting caught and lie about it to me. Stupid as I was I always took him back. So with this background yes I would check his phone bill. I knew but I just had to see it for myself. Now I am in a good relationship but I still feel the nagging insecurities and I do find myself looking over his phone and phone bill periodically. I am not saying it is right, trust me.

Answer 7

He uses a company phone, so the statements never reach my hands! I have looked on his phone call history though. Yes, we were having serious trust issues at that time!

Answer 8

I know it might sound stupid, but what I don't know, won't hurt me; so, no, I'd never do that. My husband is loving, caring, and so far, has been a wonderful husband and the best father to my son, so why would I want to "spy" on him? I might find something I won't like and I'm so happy with my marriage...why ruin it? I'll find what I need to find, when it's the right time to find it (and without having to look for it).

Answer 9

If you do then you don't trust your husband, it can backfire.

My coworker's wife does that & jumps into conclusion that her husband is not trustworthy asking who's number is that talking so many minutes with whos who. He finally got so tired w/her being nosey, it seems like even he tells the truth to her she won't believe. So then he cheated on her w/the lady in accounting. LOL.

Answer 10

I did that once. Got myself all worked up in a tizzy over about 40 numbers I didn't recognize. Called every one.

I felt like a bad wife when I was done. Every single one was a pizza place, or a friend of ours who's number I didn't recognize, his parents, brothers, the kids school... every one was 1000% legit. I felt guilty for snooping and not trusting him.

I wouldn't do it again without a good reason.