My ex--boyfriend left me for another girl 2 months, he didn't even tell me he dumped me. I had to find out through a close source of mine. He wanted to come back. I let him come back and now he everyday we get into an argument he says I act different he swears me up and down I talk to other men. This is reall getting on my nerves. He says he is trying to make up for what he did. Why can't he trust me he cheated? can someonme help me I am really thinking about breaking up with him? How can I break up with him without feeling guilty?
2007-12-04 06:36:11 · 19 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just remember he cheate don you, dumped you for someone else, was coward enough to not even let you know, disrespected you in every way he could've, and now he is being paranoid and blaming you for his insecurities. He's a jerk, you shouldn't feel guilty for not wanting to step on dog crap. Just avoid it and feel relieved.
2007-12-04 09:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real loser. First of all he's the one who cheated not you. He can't be trusted. He could be cheating on you right now. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You should not feel any guilt at all for dumping him. If you guys are getting into an argument everyday, then the relationship is not worth the headache.
2007-12-04 06:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by aznkk99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice! See how he turned the table on you? Don't feel guilty that's what he wants-he cheated and you feel bad -what's wrong with this picture? He has a guilty conscience and he figures you may want to get even some day- find another guy sweety
2007-12-04 06:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you never should have taken him back that let him know he could do it again the reason he comes at you like that is becuse he cheated so of course he expects you to do the same all of this is easyer said then done i would get rid of him you deserive to be happy all the time not just when he decides to come back to you he left his 80 for a 20 and you took him back
2007-12-04 06:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Princess, sounds like you're kissing a real toad! Why would you want to put up with that all the time? Do you feel sorry for him? Just break up! He cheated on you! He should be feeling guilty, not trying to turn it around on you!
2007-12-04 06:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by im sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is GUILTY, he is stilll cheating on you and he is trying to blame you. You deserve better and you don't need someone like that around, and if you argue everyday, then there is something wrong anyways with the realtionship. Don't feel guilty he cheated on you and I would not have taken him back. Hope this helps
2007-12-04 06:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Schmoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm he cheated but you feel guilty breaking up with him?
Tell him you tested positive for an STD, I am sure he will run out of the door....
And then, really go get yourself checked out.
2007-12-04 06:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by kittykatsback 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real winner you've got here.
Tell him it's over. You don't owe him an explanation. Goodbye. Have any stuff of his from your house in your trunk to give to him.
2007-12-04 06:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real pain in the ***. Just dump him like you normally would and don't feel guilty, he deserves it.
2007-12-04 06:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's posing as the victim even tho he cheated. You deserve better so you should move on and see someone who loves you as you are.
2007-12-04 06:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by J.W. Augustiner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋