What if you are scared to fight someone what should you do?

Question

What if you are scared to fight someone bigger than you what should you and what if they plan on jumping you and what if wat they want to fight you for is not anything you did or said about them wasnt true?

Answer 1

give them what they want to keep from getting hit.
getting hit doesnt hurt that much or long.
now me i like to fight. obviously some one dont like you and stuck your name into it to start trouble. you can decide to be marked as a sissy if you dont fight, or a snitch tattletale if you tell but if you dont wanna be a gang member big deal.

you know who hates them ask that person to jump them for you. or if you have a mutant for a friend, like me i use to fight peoples battles for them. though i wasnt a knight in shining armor i saw myself that way. defend those wheo are to weak to defend themselves

Answer 2

Ya know, I am curious as to how others will answer this. especially those who are the same age as the asker.
I had a problem with bullies in school. But I stood up to them. Sometimes it didn't matter, sometimes I got their respect.
At first I was gonna say it depends on you, but that is not quite right, cuz today, it is far more dangerous to fight back then it was 30 years ago. (Not a common thing for weapons to be carried) But then anyone who fights with anything other then their fists, well...what is the point?
I guess what I want to say is Try to talk one on one w/ who you are having the issues with. sometimes it's easier to safe face for the both of you....also you don't say how old you are.
Keep in mind that things can be carried too far, and assault charges can be filed.
My suggestion is to confront this person in front of witnesses such as an adult, and say that you will not be party to a fight....and that if anything happens, that charges can and will be pressed.
for example:
when you get to class, you tell the teacher you need to talk to both them, and the other person out in the hall.
once out there, ya say
"Mrs Smith, Mary here thinks that I am responsible for (whatever) and I am not. I have been told that you Mary, are planning on kicking my a** . If anything happens to me, then I and my parents will file charges"
This way, an adult (who CAN do something) is made aware of the problem...this way the offender, "Mary" will understand that you will not be bullied....and that she will be held responsible if something happens.
But I might also be living in a dream world.

Answer 3

First off Chase W should not be allowed to give advice. Do not try and train on your own, find a good instructor. Style does not matter as long as they train in a realistic manner. No high kicks, no flashy moves, etc. Fear is good. Fear is what keeps the species alive. Listen to your fear. If somebody was in a real confrontation and tells you they were not afraid, they are lying. Trainign Martial Arts will help you channel that fear and not be paralyzed by it. It also teaches you how destructive fighting is and why you should avoid it unless there is a chance somebody will die. Life and death is the only reason to ever fight on the street.

Answer 4

Sounds like you pissed off someone bigger than you. Remember that 85% of fights never go to actual blows, most of it is just verbal. You can always run faster scared then you can angry, so at least you have that going for you. If is does go to blows, there are no rules about fighting, anything goes. Go for shots to the throat and nose. They seem to slow people down quite a bit. Let them throw the first punch, then you can plead self-defense if you get in any legal issues. Good luck.

Answer 5

Walk away, What has been lost if you walk away but always be prepared to defend yourself sometimes you can't just turn and walk away. Sounds like this person just has some issues within themselves, don't be what they want you to be you are the bigger person if you have nothing to fight them for other than stupidity leave them to win whatever they have created in their mind.

Answer 6

If someone has threatened to beat you up, you must tell a teacher, counselor, or the principal immediately. They might call the cops to come to the school when class is let out so that no fights take place. You shouldn't have to live in fear.

Answer 7

Call the COPs. Change the way you go to the store, etc. I learned from age, that even if you can win the fight, it's not worth an assault charge. Carry some pepper spray or a tazer.

Answer 8

when i was in high school a much bigger and younger girl jumped me...she and her friends kicked me all over and i had bruises and scratches. but the thing is that i was on top of her punching her in her face. so i was hailed the winner. =)
but i'd suggest going to a school counselor or talk to your mom so she can talk to her mom.
btw...i was jumped for something i did not say nor do...it will pass. and if you do get into a fight...just remember...no pulling hair. go for the nose...punch a girl in her nose...it really hurts.

Answer 9

i was bullied in school, its no fun i know how you feel. but bullies usually do pick on people smaller than them. here's the thing, i know you're scared, try to avoid that person at any cost. people may tease you and call you a coward but so what. avoid the bully. if you are confronted don't back down try your best to beat the cramp out of him. it doesnt matter if you win, what will matter is you stood up to this bully, defened yourself, and the next bully won't think of bothering you. i wish you the best

Answer 10

Stay away but if jumped you have no choice>see about a self defense course>You don;t need to know a lot just a few good moves>And points>To defend yourself> Be safe>

Answer 11

You have choices -

hide away so they don't find you (this could be for a very long time - the rest of your life)

negotiate (face up to them and tell them that they are wrong and you have no argument with them - tho' it sounds like your nemesis is not smart enough to go this route and will probably bash you for the sheer fun of it)

face up to them (tell them that they are wrong and you won't back down - if the worst comes to the worst and you have to fight hit them as hard as you can as fast as you can and don't stop until they are well beaten).

Learn an effective martial art such as karate or kung fu.

Most bullies enjoy a feeling of power - they threaten people first to make their victims afraid.

If you are afraid of them they have won already. If you stand up to them many bullies will back down as they don't want to get hurt - they much prefer to hit people who aren't going to fight back! Be angry, be infuriated, be indignant. How dare this person threaten your well being?

You may well surprise yourself when you don't back down.

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Many, many years ago my life was plagued by a man who threatened to beat me up because I spoke to a girl he liked - she was the best friend of my girlfriend, so, yes, I did speak to her now and again and we got on quite well. I liked her, but I preferred my girl friend. For years this guy (who had a reputation for being a local hard man/toughie) made my life a misery with threats and intimidation. One evening I was walking through town and I turned to see him running at me, fist raised. The exact words he shouted at me were "Remember me? This is where you get yours!"
I didn't have time to think, and instead of trying to run away, duck or protect myself I stepped forwards and punched him in the face. He went down like a sack of potatoes, unconscious.
All those years of torment and when push came to shove I dropped him with one punch.
Best of all - three weeks after the event I was walking down the road and I saw him and two tough looking mates walking towards me. My instinct was to get out the way and hope that they hadn't seen me, but I decided to keep walking towards them. All three of them crossed the road and avoided me.

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You have choices.

One of which is to spend your life living in fear.

The choice you make is yours.

Take all the advice you can then do what YOU think is right.