a guy meets his ex girl friend after an year of his marriage to someone else. they both had fight as he stopped talking to her and she asked him why he stopped talking to her..he explained that his wife may not like him to be in touch with ex..and he told her that its better that she not discuss the issues abt her past because she is aware of the issues that can come up..and he said he is afraid that he may want to have sex with her.
was he emotionally attached to his ex , does he love her or the wife.
he married the other lady because of parents pressure . it was arranged marriage while his ex was his best friends for few years. they did not have sex ever..
thank you.
2007-12-04 06:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The real deal is that he is probably in love with both women. He may have a stronger attachment to the ex at this point in his life. However as the years progress his bond with his new wife will grow stronger. Eventually his need to contact his ex will diminish. He is attached to the memories. My advice to the wife is to start creating happy memories with her husband. He will begin to appreciate what he has. As far as the husband he should not see his ex for any reason. He needs to do what is right.
2007-12-04 06:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not in love with his wife. If he loved the ex, he should have married her instead.
2007-12-04 14:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows who he really loves, BUT he made vows before God to his wife. So, he should do whatever it takes to remain faithful to the one he married.
2007-12-04 14:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by jimandflory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking with the wrong head> Cheating on either part is wrong>
2007-12-04 14:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow it sounds complicated.
2007-12-04 14:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋