Would you leave your husband alone with your female children?

Question

You know what they say ... no man can be trusted. They all have perverted minds and desire young girls.

Women, would you honestly leave your husband alone with your own daughter?

Women - It's time for the third wave of feminism. Get active. Do your part. I'm doing mine by making women *THINK* about what their husband could do to theirr female children. TAKE ACTION NOW.

YOU ARE A WOMAN - TAKE CONTROL ... NOW.

Answer 1

I totally trust my husband with my daughter. Not all men are twisted the way you think or what "they" say. And who the heck are "they" to talk about men in such general terms anyway? How sad you would think so low of men...there are many honerable trustworthy men out there.

As for your pseudo-manifesto to get women to "think"...honey if we all thought like you we'd still be in the dark ages.

Answer 2

I read of a young woman the other day who took her 2 little children into a gas station bathroom and killed them both with a knife. Poor Baby Grace, her mother deliberately took her into harms way and was apart of her brutal murder. I'm sure you heard about the crazy lady who drowned all of her children in her bath tub. Unfortunately the fathers of these innocent children trusted them with their mother. I'm hoping your getting my point here?? People are people. Male or Female they are who they are. Some are good and do what they can for others. Some you'd swear are direct spawns of Satan as they would rather kill you than help you. This has absolutely nothing to do with gender or race. It has to do with who people chose to be. Just as you choose to generalize. I feel bad for you that you've not had a trustworthy man in your life.

As far as your question goes, I trust my husband with my life. There is nothing that I wouldn't trust him with. Do you trust the Doctor that delivers the baby? Or how about the male Doctor who could possibly save your life some day. Would you endanger your own life to request and wait around for a female Doctor? You should really think about the hurtful things you say and if they make sense. Because when you generalize you end up looking like a fool. Sorry if I offended you. But there are too many good, hard working men out their who sacrifice everything for their families. Hopefully one day you will meet one.

Answer 3

Assuming that the husband is the FATHER of the children, then he has every reason, right and expectation to be just as nurturing to them as their mother. Fathers do NOT as a rule lust after their own children. That's a sickness.

If the husband was NOT the father, I would still have no problem. If they were good enough and trustworthy enough to MARRY in the first place, they're good and trustworthy enough to be alone with children.

Your notion of what men are like is disturbing, inaccurate and wrong.

Answer 4

Are you nuts? You obviously have no clue what is means to be a father. Granted there are men who would abuse their own children but they're few and far between. There are also women who take advantage of children. Why would you not trust your husband. If you've got some reason that would be different but to assume all men are perverted is twisted lady.

Answer 5

Poor little girl. She's screwed either way. If her mother has to ask that question Mom either knows something about her husband and isn't protecting her daughter or she's going to raise her daughter with the idea that men are pervs. I hope that you read all these answers Ruby and take action for the sake of your daughter. Either get the help you need to respect men or get out of your house FAST if you think he can hurt your child.

Answer 6

"You know what they say ... no man can be trusted. They all have perverted minds and desire young girls." I will ignore this statement because it's simply NOT TRUE. Men can say that women think about themselves first and their vaginas and not about their daughters, when they get involved with men they can't even trust! You have serious issues of mistrust towards men. Maybe a bad expereince whe you were little? But it is not fair to judge all men this way. good luck

Answer 7

I have two questions for you? #1. Is he your daughter's father? and even if he is not, you should have answered that question before you got married. You are a package deal and just because a guy always thinks of sex, doesn't make them all out to be a sexual preditor. There are a lot of great guys out there. My husband has a daughter with another female and I know with 150% certainty he would never do anything to hurt her.

Answer 8

Are you insane? This is the stupidest question I've ever seen. What's the point of having kids if you don't trust your husband to be alone with your daughter? What if your husband doesn't trust YOU enough to leave you alone with your son? It works both ways... crazy

Answer 9

The fact that you have any questions about your husband is grounds for worrying. Most (not all) of the perpetrators of daughters are by stepfathers or boyfriends. Most men could not do that to their own flesh and blood unless they struggle with a porn addiction or have been exposed to sexual abuse themselves. If your husband does have a porn problem especially one he's trying to hide, I'd watch out. But honestly not all men are bad.

Answer 10

Yes i would...becuase i know without a shadow of a doubt he would never do anything like that....

But i know its scary because there are so many friggin pervs out there...Do you honestly not trust your husband like that?...why are you with him?

Unfortunately, abuse happens in alot of instances..and Yes woman do have to keep their eyes and ears open to this abuse...Woman also have to be ALOT more selective with their partners and not marry a guy "they think" could abuse my child .>>Thats when things are going to change..When Woman actually STOP getting with the dead beats of the world and actually showing the "daughters" how to get with decent, moral men....and then their daughters will repeat the pattern and get with a decent, moral men.. So i agree woman do have to change and that is STOP GETTING WITH LOSERS!!

Answer 11

If a man is a pervert; you new he was perverted before you had children. If you have a husband that is a loving husband yes I would trust him with his own daughter.