my cousin just started having sex and she just told her mom. her mom has already talked to her about stds and protection and aids...but im going to talk to my cousin today... what would you say?
2007-12-04 06:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 30 and i think she will really listen to me
2007-12-04 06:16:30 · update #1
birthcontrol, condoms, self respect of her body... dont do it just cause i guy claims they love you, dont do it just to fit it.... dont do it because you feel pressured...make sure he has a condom no matter what kind of birthcontrol she is on.
2007-12-04 06:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by louie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would remind her that its better not to of course. The of the vast responsibilities of having sex. of course review the stds and other obvious visual/physical issues, disease, pregnancy, etc.
But also, discuss the emotional aspect. There is a level of emotional vulnerability that goes along with it. Being able to do the intimate things that are involved in sexual acts take a level of emotional maturity. Opening yourself up to the possibility of rejection, embarrassment, or if it doesn't work out. You now have someone out in the world that knows those intimate details about you.
2007-12-04 14:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
since she has already started there is not much that u can say except the truth to her about life and everything that it comes with. stress to her the importance of using a condom and using it correctly and about getting on birth control pills to prevent pregnancy. talk to her and stress to her what ur mother already has about stds and stuff just b real with her bcuz she already got that feeling and i'm sure she likes it too, so just b honest and she should b ok. and let ehr know its not cool to sleep around either and that is her goodies and not no anybody gets em. keep her goodies straight and she should b ok.
2007-12-05 13:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by naughtygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its a losing battle, once they decide and basically get permission from their mother, its going to happen no matter what you can say. I was too young when I started having sex, and although I wish I could go back in time and change that, I know I wouldn't have listened to anyone who tried to tell me otherwise. When you're 15, you think you're grown up, with grown up feelings. You think you know what you're doing and feeling, and of course you don't. :) Best of luck to you.
2007-12-04 14:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Katie G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that the way people judge you is based on your actions.. if she acts slutty.. she will be viewed that way. She is not old enough to be having sex, she is too young to know what real love is. Tell her she needs to stop now before she gets a label placed on her that will last alot longer than the boyfriend lasts.
2007-12-04 14:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by iamsharpiedog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she may get pissed that every ones trying 2 tell her what 2 do. I'd jus tell her to be safe and make sure she's 100% positive and leave it at that
2007-12-04 15:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get her to a planned parenthood!
2007-12-04 14:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by mom-to-my-boy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her not to.
2007-12-05 09:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do it. You can wait.
2007-12-04 14:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋