Have you ever loaned money to a man or woman you loved but then they broke your heart and didtn't pay you back? In other words, have you ever been used in this fashion? Do you know someone who has? How did you/they handle it?
2007-12-04 05:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we loan money to others, look at it as GONE! It's really not a good practice to loan people money, ever... and i never do it anymore...
I used to work with a girl who constantly asked people for $5 so she could get a pack of cigarettes -- almost daily! I feel, if she can't afford cigarettes, she needs to stop smoking. Of course, she never paid people back.
And if you get involved with a man, make sure he isn't going to ask you for money or loans. Men need to make their own money... you are not responsible for the finances of other people, and don't "owe" them anything.
just don't do it!
2007-12-04 06:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying. Never loan money unless you can afford to loose it and under no circumstances lend money to those very close to you. Remember this, if someone can't get a loan from traditional sources then it's because they are a bad risk.
2007-12-04 06:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing happens every day. It's not that unusual. How do you handle it? The same way you handle any other kind of personal hurt and disappointment. You live with it and eventually it becomes less painful.
2007-12-04 06:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either do one of two things either demand the money back take it to small claims court or let it go take it as a loss to your heart and your wallett. In the end its your decision.
2007-12-04 06:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lawsuit...small claims court. A loan is a loan. Go get em.
2007-12-04 06:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES W/ MY FIRST LOVE. MY DAUGHTERS FATHER. I GAVE HIM EVERYTHING INSURED HIS CAR UNDER ME GAVE HIM CASH EVEN WENT BANK RUPT. BUT I HAVE MY OWN HOME, A NICE CAR, A GREAT JOB , I AM MARRIED I HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL KIDS MY HUSBANDS MAKES GOOD MONEY AND WE ARE LIVING VERY COMFORTABLE. HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LIKE OR WANT TO WORK, HE HAS NO JOB AND HE IS 27 YEARS OLD HOW SAD, HE HAS A RUN DOWN CAR, OWES MONEY TO EVERYBODY AND HE OWES 50,000 DOLLARS IN CHILDSUPPORT.
GOD DON'T SLEEP!!! HE GOT HIS
2007-12-04 06:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by tati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen a few times.
i wrote it off this way:
some lessons in life you have to pay for.
2007-12-04 06:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. and i know how it feels... but honey ur better off... coz its a lesson learnt... and in the eyes of the lord ur better than them.. that is how i stop feeling sorry for my self..
2007-12-04 06:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by chaos_infinity1982 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.
2007-12-04 06:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by colder_in_minnesota 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋