And instead want to just spend their lives with someone? Don't they know that legal marriage is not a sign of true commitment? I mean hello, look at the rates of divorce and infidelity. How can people believe that the married man who cheats on his wife throughout the marriage is more committed than the man who doesn't get married but remains faithful to his non-legal spouse simply because the guy is married? I'm just curious because I see a lot of negative responses when heterosexual people ask about commitment ceremonies and things like that.
2007-12-04 05:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by TresJolie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The majority of people are herd animals. By doing what you are doing, you are going against the herd and therefore, they resent it and will try to shame you into falling back into line like a sheep. With the divorce rate being what it is and all of these children being raised in broken homes, I strongly believe that a lot of people never should have even bothered walking down that aisle.
2007-12-04 07:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why people have negative things to say. Certainly getting married is a personal choice that you make and your right it certainly doesn't make you (man or woman) any more committed to a person. If you stray you stray married or not. For some people there is no love and marriage is just a business arrangement. So you have to take it for what it is and no one should judge anyone else about it.
2007-12-04 05:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by ngood10720 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you wish, and you recognize it's going to make you blissful, then the ones So known as *peers* are not watching out for you. Sounds like their depressing themselves and do not wish to peer you be blissful. 27 is NOT too younger to get married and feature youngsters, when you had been 18 and this used to be the identical query then it might make experience, however due to the fact your already a shrewd girl with a degree-head on her shoulders and already is aware of what she wishes, your capable adequate for marriage and children, any truly buddy might appear out for his or her near peers and wish them to be blissful in lifestyles. Maybe your peers demands to appear on the larger photo for you, Money is not the whole thing, it does not make all people blissful at all times, Your without doubt lacking a Piece of brain to grow to be *complete*. What you want is a Man *more youthful* or *older* so they can stand by way of you and aid you and preserve you from the bad external woes corresponding to the ones bad peers of yours and something else an identical or worse. wish this helped you a few, have a hi there Nikki :)
2016-09-05 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the difference between a marraige and a commitment ceremony? It is sill the union of two people. I agree with you on the divorce rate. In our society we beleive in one man for one woman hence the high divorce rates. Other culters are different and yet and still they stay married. I believe in what God joined together let no man pull apart. Is the commitment ceremony to say I'm with you today but still have the option to leave tomorrow. To me it just doesn 't sound too permanent. Neither does marraige, however it's what's right in our society and what the bible tells us.
2007-12-04 05:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Coco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most question don't ask should I get married>They have issue
and want answers>Marriage works if both want it to>But with all the ones with no standers going after the married 1s there not much hope for marriage>They can't seem to say NO>
2007-12-04 05:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. There is a great deal of pressure to marry in this culture, and for what?
2007-12-04 05:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to be married one day. that is why i am taking my time. the divorce rate is too high.
2007-12-04 05:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy, LOL.
Although a good marriage doesn't have to be a prison.
2007-12-04 05:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Forty2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Envy, they wish they had your devotion. You go for it and good luck to you both.
2007-12-04 05:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by cooter726 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋