It feels like you reached in and grabbed our hearts and step on them. It physically and emotionally hurts another human being.
How about the rest of you that has been cheated on. Tell us how you felt.
2007-12-04 04:51:09 · 17 answers · asked by Babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is alot of us out there. We get over it but trust is what we lose more than anything else.
2007-12-04 05:15:17 · update #1
I can't even describe how bad the pain was, the disappointment after I gave him everything, how he can do me wrong like that. Its the worse possible pain u can ever imagine and I wouldn't even want my worst enemy to feel that kinda pain. Its hard to trust another person again, u go around thinking that all men are just out to hurt u. Its very hard to get over but I did and right now I coudn't be happier where I am.
2007-12-04 05:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is the most awful feeling in the world its as if some has given you a death sentence and you really feel like you want to die. You are also stripped of your self esteem feeling like you were not as good as the person that he or she left you for. Your mind screams at you all the time why, why , why, what did i do? even your stomach turns against you as it feels sick all the time, i did not want to hear music talk to anyone see anyone in love and kiss on the TV, how very sad is that? and no one but no one could make me believe I would ever get over this pain .--------But you do It takes a while but with each tear each stab of pain that my heart made me feel I was actually getting stronger and the body was going through the healing process,and so when I try and answer the askers question that is what I try to relate to them It will get better just hold on hon !!!! and sometimes as i am telling them that i am actually crying because the mind never forgets the pain.
2007-12-04 14:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a completely different outlook on this subject.
I have been cheated on. It hurt, briefly, but I got over it very quickly! I know that I am a great person. I loved him, I love my children, I was a great wife and am a great mom. I did everything I knew to make him happy! He still made that choice. I'm so ok with it though! I know, without a doubt, that he will never find another woman who will do all the things I did for him and our marriage! He will wake up someday and realize what he lost! Meanwhile, I will be in a healthy, happy, committed relationship with a man who appreciates and deserves all I have to offer! Anger will consume you! No one is worth allowing that for yourself!!
2007-12-04 13:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like my entire life and everything in it was a lie. I started going back over our entire relationship and wondering if he had been cheating on me the whole time we were together.
Like my now ex had died - he was no longer the person I knew and loved.
Physically, I felt like I had a huge weight on my chest. I did not eat or sleep.
I was humiliated.
But...time has done its thing and I know I deserve better than my ex.
2007-12-04 13:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the Cheaters -
You make a person feel inadequate and unloveable. You help us to become bitter and untrusting where we used to be happy and have trust in our fellow humans.
We end up with eyes open and able to see the slim surrounding you that was invisible - knowing that love is truely blind.
WE CAN SEE CLEARLY NOW...
2007-12-04 13:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on, and I felt like someone extremely close to me had died. In actuality the person that I had known had died, and this new person was now revealing himself to me. But time and lots of open expressions of my feelings allowed me to pull myself together and move on. I am a much stronger person now, and am incredibly happy! Let time heal all wounds.
2007-12-04 13:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only feelings they have are for themselves>Sorry been there done that it's best to think of the damage they have done than the pleasure you had>Or you will make your life a mess>Move on good luck>
2007-12-04 12:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on and I was hurt but most of all angry. Angry because of the way everything came out and I was attacked and caught in the middle of crap. The other girl was calling me and yelling and cursing me out because she was "the other woman" I didnt do anything. she was the stupid one to get used. I was sooooo pissed off!
2007-12-04 12:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky Lovers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only want to know why. Why didn't you just tell me you were unhappy? Why are you so selfish that you couldn't give me a chance to try and make you happy? Why didn't you just let me leave? Why did you have to lie? Was it so hard to have to say good by when you knew you didn't want to stay. You wouldn't have cheated if you cared. If i wasn't good enough why did you marry me? But mostly why when you left did you tell me it was my fault that you cheated?
2007-12-04 13:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by FinallySmiling 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i was cheated on... when i first was ever told bout it, i didnt want to believe it, but when i found out for myself, i was ready to break down. I didnt want to get even, or get angry at him i was more angry at what he did. i felt so betrayed and hurt but above all i felt neglected and no-good. i felt like i did something wrong and it tore me down in all aspects. i didnt want to believe that it was over, but deep down i knew that it was... i felt so worthless... i refused to date and eat and everything else that i used to do. i still wont date because i am afraid that it will happen again.... it just wears someone out
2007-12-04 13:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋