What to do? Sometimes I think he is trying to get me pregnant for a way out of his marrige. I don't want a baby I just want him. He said before he came to see me that it was his last time coming over. He has said this before plenty of times. I just ignore it? Maybe he is trying to get me to fight over him. I don't know? I really want things like they use to be. WHAT TO DO
2007-12-04 04:38:13 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he dosne't really want to breakup with you, but he is torn between you and his family... He is wondering if you will tell him you want him and need him, so much, so he can get the strentgh to tell his family he wants out...
personally if i was you i woulden't make him do that, cause then all the pressure will be on you to make him happy.. he's gonna be real needy, and you better really love this guy,,, cause he's gonna be all over you... then there is the drama of divorce and stuff...
I would suggest you tell him to just shut up, that you will still be here for him, but you konw it won't last forever....
I went through that... she finally left me after two years... and its almost a year later, and I can't even look at her cause she crushed me.. in the end though... it was the best thing she has ever done for me, as my family is sooo awsome... so i traded the hottest, naughtiest sex, for my family... not my choice, but it's ok.. : o \
2007-12-04 04:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Latin G 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I shouldn't be laughing here but I am. Honestly what does it matter what you do you are engaged in a sexual relationship with a person who is married. Why do you want to be with him again? I'm sure it's not because he is an honest straightforward person. In case you forgot he is married to someone else and on top of that you think he may be trying to get you pregnant so he can leave his wife. I think maybe you should just leave him for a single male. Quit wasting your time with someone else's husband. How would you feel if you were married and you husband was off spending time in some other woman's bed? I hope he doesn't have children. Well good luck home wrecker I hope the wife doesn't find out about you. They are never very pleasant towards the women their husbands are F******.
2007-12-04 05:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by FinallySmiling 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just want him but he wants you and his wife. You may not liek to hear it and you may disagree but if he wanted to be with only you he would not need a "way out" like getting you pregnant. He would just leave his wife. Maybe he does want you to fight over him but why would you look foolish for him when he is getting everything he wants and you're miserable because he goes home to his wife every night and his wife is miserable because he cheats with you? How were things before? He tried to be with you as often as possible because the relationship was new? And later you will be just like his wife and he'll move on to the next girl who will tolerate the fact that he has a wife.
2007-12-04 04:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky Lovers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Miss concubine;
( or mistress, if you prefer)
or adulteress, as some would say.
You're being USED. All he wants from you is what you can do for him in bed! He's screwing you.
And you are ignoring the fact that he is married.
Oh, BTW, he is expecting YOU to take full responsibility for NOT getting pregnant, so, you better be on the pill, and add to that some female condoms. DO not get pregnant with this man. You would be wise to get out of this "relationship" as fast as you can; you aren't going to get him!
2007-12-04 04:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to let him go, I want you think if this was you and your Husband was seeing someone else, you would be upset that this girl is trying to take your man. Now im sure that there are plenty of men out there that are single. If he is looking for a way out dont let it be you. Because sooner or later he will go back to the wife.
2007-12-04 04:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He does not need to get you pregnant if he really wanted to leave his wife.
Obviously he doesn't, hence his excuse of "this is the last time".
Leave this man, he's married. There are single guys out there, get yours.You probably won't stop this relationship,so i hope you don't get pregnant because he might just do the same to you.
2007-12-04 04:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by belle k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't have his baby because he wants out of his marriage.. that would be horrible to bring a child into this. It seems you have just a fwb type a deal with him and he's getting all drama king on you cuz he wants more. He'll be back, but you need to tell him the truth, that you are in it just as a fwb.
2007-12-04 04:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really think you will get supportive answers here? The answers you are going to get I can bet you will be all identical. You will receive no sympathy, you know why?,,Because you know this is wrong. I hope you find yourself again, and lear to love yourself enough that you could right your wrongs by doing the right thing. Hope you listen. good luck
2007-12-04 04:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i would recommend you tell him that you won't see him anymore. he's in a tough position. let him go. if he comes back (gets a divorce) then he's yours. If he doesn't come back, then he was never yours anyway. you have to cut him off so he can make the decision he's avoiding.
try to look from his point of view. he's not trying to get you to do anything. he's struggling with himself. he keeps telling himself he won't do it again (come to you) but he keeps coming. it's a lot like an alcoholic or someone who's trying to quit smoking. help him out by cutting it off.
2007-12-04 04:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop seeing a married man.
But of course that's not the answer you want, even if you KNOW it's the right one.
He might be "trying to get [you] pregnant" but you're letting him cheat on someone who never did anything to you.
2007-12-04 04:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋