Does a woman really need an income of her own if her man is earning & saving enough for them ?

Question

Also her man is faithful obedient understanding.Does she still need an income or it would be better if she concentrated on home only ?

Answer 1

relationships have never lasted so little. Blame the party you want (in my case, sorry, girls, feminism). But the bottom line is that If a person in a relationship depends exclusively on the other, when they break-up, he or she would have a hard time. Well, she wouldn't... Ailmony.

Answer 2

It might not be a matter of income. It might be a matter of needing to accomplish career goals. If that's the issue, then she DOES need to go out and get it.

If the only reason is to get more money.....well, more money never hurt, so it'll depend on what the pros and cons are. If she has a good man, enough money to have an enjoyable life and doesn't really want a career or a job, then staying home may be ok if she wants that.

However, there is such a thing as having your brain turn to mush. When I first became a mom, I stayed at home all of the time. Cleaned house, took care of my baby and watched tv all day. It was HORRIBLE. I could literally feel my brain cells dying. I had to get out and do something stimulating, to recapture the quick wit and sharp mind I'd had before becoming a mother. There are only so many mundane chores that a person can perform before they realize they need something more in their lives. Most women who realize this go out and get a job. Not always because they need it or because they want to ignore their man. Just because they NEED mental stimulation of some sort just to feel alive. A sedentary lifestyle isn't an easy one to accept for someone who is smart and active. Could men do it? Sit home and clean all day, care for kids all day and be happy to not have a reason to use their minds, their skills, etc. Yeah, some could, but I don't think many would like that.

Besides that, staying home all day caring for home and hearth is BORING. No human contact until the spouse came home and nothing important to show for each day of your life. It's a huge sense of failure.

If you're the man and you have a wife who is wanting to get a job.......let her. If she gets fed up with it, she'll quit. If you don't let her, she'll resent it and sooner or later, you'll be the one to pay for it. Besides that, its good for a woman to feel proud of the money she earns and it will make her feel more like an adult and less like a child who has to go to 'daddy' for money. When she buys you a present for birthday or whatever, she'll know and you'll know she is the one that worked for it. It kind of sucks to receive a gift and know that someone else spent 'your' money to buy it for you.

Trust me. I've been there. Let her work. You'll both be more satisfied and happier for it. If the housework suffers, both of you could hire a part time housekeeper. If she's earning money too, you could afford it.

Good luck.

Answer 3

In terms of money, if the man is earning enough then she doesn't unless you want to earn even more fort luxuries.

A woman only needs an income for her own benefit, if it's something she enjoys (more like a paid hobby) or a chancer to socialise with others.

Answer 4

I think it's always a smart thing for both parties in a couple to have money their partner can't touch. This is not in case the relationship dissolves, but more for financial security of the couple as well as for promoting harmony between them. Leave a joint account for the household expenses, vacations, etc. Each person's personal account is for their own spending. If these separate accounts are taken into consideration when budgeting, either the man or woman can spend on things they like without needing to check with their partner or taking away from the household account. It offers a sense of freedom for both.

Answer 5

I've always believed in making my own income because I'm independent. So therefore I could never be a housewife or concentrate on home only.

Answer 6

If there isn't a financial need for a second income, then she should work if she wants to. However, I believe in being prepared. Bad things happen, and she should be able to support herself and her family if need be. What happens if her faithful and understanding husband loses his job? Or gets hurt and can no longer work?

EDIT
I am assuming she is a SAHM and isn't doing nothing.

Answer 7

Yes, she does. A woman shouldn't have to depend on any man. She should be able to take care of herself, and this requires either an income, savings, or both of her very own.

Money aside, many women enjoy having careers and doing something other than picking up after their children all day.

Answer 8

I think it should be based on what the woman wants to do and what is best for her family. If she feels that she needs a career for her own identity then she should have one. If they both decide that she would be better off at home then that's what she should do. Everyone is different so each situation would not have the same answer.

Answer 9

She NEEDS an income if she feels it fulfills her to make her own money. The circumstances and financial security of a man is of no consequence. Only the woman in that situation can answer that question (and she can only answer for herself), no one can decide what women "need".

Answer 10

I think it really depends a lot of factors;
1. If the women is happy with the arragment .. the should not work..
2. If she is happy with the arragement , but woud still like to have some extra money - should work.
3. Depends a lot on the husband (likes/ dislikes)
4. depends on kids
5. etc


It is always good to be self dependant.... just to have that extra cash for surprises and rainy days...

Answer 11

I like making my own money and I don't like having to depend on anyone for an allowance. I got an allowance from my parents when I was a child.

Besides, I don't have any children, so there's no reason for anyone to "concentrate on the home".