I know that not everyone can like "you" but how do you handle it when you haven't done anything wrong or bad to someone? They just don't like you for some reason. Anyone have any advice on how to handle people not liking you?
2007-12-04 01:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I heard someone say once that you should be happy some people don't like you. Take it as a compliment.
2007-12-04 02:14:19 · update #1
I could careless....YOU will never be liked by everyone, no matter how hard you try to please them....so why not do what you want, say what you feel and be who you are and forget it...the way I see it is that IF I was liked by everyone, I couldn't give my real friends any attention....
You have to be secure and realize that often times people don't like other people because they are jealous or intimidated.....I am neither, I am comfortable with myself so I don't dislike other girls based on their looks or their clothes etc...Be yourself and be strong....
2007-12-04 02:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel anything in particular when I realize it but I don't think that something like this really has any value that is worth paying much attention to.
It's sort of similar when people try to force you to become part of a particular social group. Just ignore them and live your life. If I paid as much attention to other people as some people do, I wouldn't have any degrees, have a decent career, have a lot of the things I have now, meet really unique people throughout my lifetime, traveled to the places I've been or be happy. So I don't pay attention to them.
2007-12-04 11:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ranz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I write it off as jealousy and go out of my way to annoy them. I'm a really kindhearted person but sometimes I run into things like that because women can be very jealous and a lot of them suffer from insecurity even if they are attractive. So, I do little things to drive them crazy. This really only happens if i'm out at a club or something.
2007-12-04 10:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cesaria Barbarossa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has bothered me and still bothers me sometimes, but people are like that. And there are people that I don't like for any particular reason. You just have to accept it and realize that it doesn't take anything away from your value as a person.
2007-12-04 10:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, actually that happens to me a lot. It actually might be a compliment. The way i see it, I rub a lot of people the wrong way, because i'm very fortunate. I'm young, funny as heck, hot, and make crazy $$$... so many people just hate on me. But it's haters who make us playas great! It's like you either love me or hate me, there's no in-between. But you know what, that's fine by me, it means i'm doing something right. Just remember, keep those friends close, but your haters...keep even closer!!
2007-12-04 10:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't do anything about how others' feel about me. I continue to be kind and treat others' with respect but I don't let their feelings about me affect me negatively. Good luck. 2D
2007-12-04 10:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by 2D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idc i have that already!
its a complment when someone u don't know hates u =D
2007-12-04 11:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hurts...i can leave the area..
virgos dont do well with me...teveryone isnt compatible..
2007-12-04 10:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋