students having sex w/ teachers?

Question

ok... Let's pretend. I'm a 13 year old, (I'm really 20.) so I'm a 7th or 8th grader. There's a new teacher. She's GORGEOUS!!! If I get her in the sack, are you gonna give me a high 5, or report her for child molestation? O.k. now i'm a 13 year old girl. There's this new teacher. He's HOT!!! I get him in the sack. Are you gonna high 5 me, or chase him down w/ torches and pitchforks?

there's some confusion. this is a hypothetical situation. I'm really a (almost) 20 male. I just wanna know how you feel about this issue.

Answer 1

What a great question!
I know when I was 13, I would have been way too immature to make that kind of decision, it would be abuse of power at the very least

Answer 2

That is terrible. I would try to stop a 13 year old from having sex with someone their own age let alone an older person in a position of power over them.
I would be going with the pitchforks and torches.

Edit: Really why the thumbs down? Do you want emotionally unstable adults running around from being abused as a child?
Or even parenthood at 13? Neither seem like a good situation to me.

Answer 3

This situation is out of the ordinary in that there is a double standard, but an almost exceptable one.

The psychological and physically effects of an underage girl having sex with an older man, especially in a position of authority, are significant and potentially traumatic. And it implies sick aberrations on the adult here.

In the case of a boy student, there is likely a psychological issue with the teacher and there might result some slight psychological trauma for the boy, but much less so. Society's perception of gender and age differences in sex is very powerful. The way we treat and what we teach boys is different than girls. The roles are different and perceptions are different and we create fundamentally different psychologies from them.

Both teachers should face the same charges because either way it is an abuse of power and a position of significance and they themselves are clearly having some issues that should be addressed. People of their age and profession/position should know better and be held accountable accordingly.

But when it comes down to it, there really is just more significant concerns with an underage girl than n underage boy.

Answer 4

A 13 year old (male of female) is not mature enough to make that decision. He/she would have sex out of fear of the teacher. This is what happened in so called "christian" schools and churches in the past. The children grew up as troubled adults and now Priests, Teachers, Bishops etc. are being sent to jail for committing those acts more than 50 years ago.

Your question, though a good one, reminds me of the perverts of the old mission schools.

Answer 5

For the boy who wants to bang the female teacher:
For the boy it would be cool, and his reputation wouldn't really be tarnished, some male parents might not even find anything wrong with it. (I remember i had a hot 8'th grade teacher n all my friends wanted to bang her)
What most adults would think of the female teacher is pathetic and report her for child molestation, but no angry mobs.
For the girl who wants to bang the male teacher:
The girl would be traumatized the rest of the time shes in that neighborhood
The male teacher, would be smart to get out of that town and never come back. because there would be a bunch of angry dads that would love to just beat the hell out of that guy

Answer 6

Most guys like myself remember when we were 13 and how much we'd love something like that. I'll be honest. I would smile if i heard a 13 year old boy pull this off; and i'd feel sick to hear a 13 year old girl sleep with an older man. I'm trying not to be biased and i believe in equal punishment. In truth both are wrong and should be treated as such.

Answer 7

Lets take the second part of your question first. The male teacher would be hunted down and would be lucky to get the jail time.

As for the first part of your question, the female teacher would still get the jail time, but it would be because the mother of the boy turned her in as the dad would probably be giving the boy the thumbs up - then the dad would realize that he could make some money off the lawsuit against the school district and would become publicly outraged by the incident.

Answer 8

I do not go with the pitchforks and torches, but I feel that any person who has the responsibility of having minors in his or her care should realize that a 13-year-old of either sex should not be the target of an experienced adult. Gorgeous has nothing to do with it. This could and should ruin a teacher's career, for nobody is going to trust him or her to be with young teenagers.

Answer 9

Well if it was a girl teacher you'd get a high 5 and if it was a guy people would chase you down. But 13's young you shoulda said high school age. Like a junior or a senior. A 13 year old kid and a 21 year old or older teacher prolly wouldn't happen unless they were a pediafile.

Answer 10

There is no point of asking such question. Abuse is abuse since a minor involved with an adult where CONCENT is IMPOSSIBLE. How do u find it in a +ve light, it can't? It is only part of ur own fantcy. Such person can go incredibely violent, 1st can start with forceful kissing where u cannot even think about to resist because she is older & u r SCARE and so on advances. All females r molesteters, emotionly manipulative & violent. When d victim is always disbelieved. Forget about d girls they always receive help, even on a fake accuse. All females should be given a death penalty. Let's creat a female free world.

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Answer 11

Regardless of the sex of the child, they are still a child so both female and male teacher should be turned in for child molestation. The adults are old enough to know what is right and wrong.