It should be taken as a complement, they're so beautiful that men can't look away.
I like it when women stare at me.
2007-12-04 01:41:06 · 33 answers · asked by hae 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
well, women do truly want to feel desired by men. and part of that desire is based on physical attraction to the female anatomy (breasts, buttocks, hips, lips, hair, etc). and so, we understand that men like these aspects of who we are, and vice versa.
HOWEVER, when men stare or make overt comments about breasts and the booty, it's seen as vulgar because there are more parts to us (as women) than just those things...it's as though you are conveying the idea that those two aspects of our bodies are the primary/only things attracting you to us, and our personalities then don't seem to matter...Hence, what you are truly conveying is that you want sex. There are a small number of women who are okay with this. For the remainder, though, it's not acceptable.
2007-12-04 01:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by docj 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Breasts and butts don't signify beauty, just a nice physique. There's a line there.
Women don't always like to be stared at by strangers. Sometimes it's their fault, because they dress in a way that makes people's heads turn. But if I was walking down the street on the way to the bus stop, the last thing I'd want to hear is a bunch of construction workers making unsavory comments about my posterior. It's just rude.
2007-12-04 03:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is not that women do not like male attention, sometimes it can be rude or even scary when some guys stare or follow you. Also depending on the age, it may not be appropriate. An example would be an older man staring at a very young girl ( age 12, 13 or so).
2007-12-04 01:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the bad manners, women don't like being dissected visually. We are beautiful creatures, created by God to have beauty. Some more, some less. But we want to be valued by men for all of our beauty, not just bits and pieces.
We don't like being treated like dolls that you can take apart and look at one piece at a time. We want to be known, and loved for that which is known about us.
Breast of Butt is a rather interesting typo. You evidently treat women like meat, and refer to them as meat as well. I can see a little Freudian Slip in that.
2007-12-04 03:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
There is a time and place,for example, I don't mind if a guy I am dating looks at me that way. However, when I was first starting graduate school I was looking for an apartment and I specifically remember one place I looked at because the guy who was showing me the apartment stared at my chest the entire time. I am not talking about a quick glance but for entire sentences I would be talking and he would be looking at my chest (and I was wearing a t-shirt and jeans, nothing revealing). There is a time and place to appreciate someones looks and there is a time and place to be professional.
2007-12-04 02:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Libby anne 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There is a time and place for everything. and staring in public is not the right time to be staring at a woman's personal things--look her in the face or eyes. If you want to stare--ask her for a private session.
2007-12-04 10:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Staring is rude.
Glancing would be more acceptable in this case. But all-out staring is ridiculous. It reduces the person down to a piece of meat.
2007-12-04 03:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by [Rei] 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's a respect thing. If you can't respect someone enough not to be staring at their breasts, why would she want to be around you? It's always bothered me because I feel that guys don't always listen to what I'm saying if I have a lower cut shirt on.
2007-12-04 01:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by ladyluck 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I am used to people staring at me. But my advice is, if you want people to take you seriously, stop staring and look a woman in the eyes. No there's nothing wrong with noticing and appreciating her assets, but she's a person first and foremost. Please treat her with respect and don't objectify her.
2007-12-04 04:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I can give you is personal experience. I HATE when guys stare at my breasts or my butt. It's disrespectful, and gross. It is sort of degrading yourself in the eyes of the girl when you do that.. Especially if you are 40 years old and staring at a 13 year old girl's breasts! I hate old perverts, they creep me out. Just don't do it! (When women stare at you, do they stare at your penis? I don't think so! [At least I hope not, lol])
2007-12-04 02:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋