i have a nagging feeling to contact my ex wife. by the way i have had three. she was my seconed she doesnt live far but she ran off with the postman . i still have feelings for her but domt know to what extent. we have spoke when passing but not about anything serious. i could get my mobile no to her but dont whant her to think i want anything untoward i would just like to talk . well what should i do ?
2007-12-04 01:22:18 · 43 answers · asked by spud.mark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know you are gonna anyway... so would it help if i just said yes?!
2007-12-04 01:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Erica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to play base ball.....three strikes your out. The nagging feeling is only there cause you miss being nagged, give it time you'll get over it. You dont want her to think you want anything, but you do want something, you just admitted it, you want to talk, that's something, isn't it? Boy are you messed up. You just want to talk?, why is what you want more important than what anyone else wants? If she missed you she'd be the one getting in touch, but she's not so why impose on her? What you should do is leave her alone, she is the one who left you right, does that sound like she want to talk.
2007-12-07 15:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DO NOT contact her in any way. Take it from me, move on with your life and even if you have feelings left for her, dont let her know by reaching out to her.you will only get hurt again. I've made this mistake many times - trying to be friends with ex's or calling them just to check up on them and having it lead to much more and only getting hurt again.She obviously had no respect for you and didnt love you like you loved her for her to go and cheat on you. Don't give her the satisfaction of crawling back to her.dont even call her man.MOVE on!
2007-12-04 01:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.....you'd be better off getting a root canal or a STD. My ex snuck out, picked up a butcher in a bar, cheated on me & threw me out of the house which she got to keep ( along with our 2 sons ) after the divorce.---Luckilly for me---I got re-married to a fantastic woman who still rocks my world after 21 years of marriage. Contacting a cheating ex-wife is like driving you car at 110 miles per hour into a cement wall.
2007-12-05 14:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget your ex wife, she's an ex for a reason. Enroll in the local community college and take some English courses it will take your mind off your ex, help you to meet new people and get you some MUCH NEEDED help with your communication skills.
2007-12-04 01:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by L H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her alone and move on life is too short
to want to dig in the garbage. It's nothing wrong with saying hello, and that's it. I know love is still there but you can love her from a distance. Good Luck.
2007-12-04 01:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think hard about why you'd contact her. To get together? Have another go? Is it that you don't know the extent of your own feelings? Figure that out before calling. Ask yourself what your motives are. then decide.
2007-12-04 22:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Boudicca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Iz Very Stupid And Need To Be In The Crazy b Home
2007-12-04 01:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rachett 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stay away from her as far as you can!! Your "feelings" for her are just hurt feelings. If she cheated on you the way you describe it then she is not worthy of your love. Pray to God to help you find someone just for you. Why would you settle for someone who hurt you? Pray about eveything in life and you'll be ok.
2007-12-04 01:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Marina C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep to yourself. She's your EX for a reason. You are trying to recapture something in your past and it's not going to happen. Move on and make some new memories for yourself.
2007-12-04 01:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Grandma of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its natural to want something that you can't especially if your single and looking for something that you had at one time with her. If she ran off on you, you should try to reason with yourself. Ask yourself if you want to be hurt like that again. If she has done it once she is capable of doing it again. Good luck.
2007-12-04 01:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by MommyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋