why do some married man cheat?

Question

i know many married guys who cheats on their wives, but they still choose to stay w/ their wives. are they not content? i'm lucky because my man's not like that! just wondering!

Answer 1

Various reasons. some do it cos they've found love else where but cant stand the stress of divource, some do it cos they want to get back at their wives, the reasons/ excuses are endless. you are lucky to have a faithfull man, they come 1 in a billion.

Answer 2

All people are slaves to forces the average person knows nothing about.

The sexual force that enslaves men is so powerful that they do not know how to break it.

The brain works by creating patterns of neurons that sustain thoughts, habits and ad-dictions.

When people have sex, these patterns grow stronger as the life force always takes the path of least resistence.

When a man has been promiscuous he ignorantly builds thought structures within himself which he shall find very difficult to control later in life.

Getting married does not stop the energy from flowing through the thought structures and 'bearing its fruit' (like a tree) so the men are in slavery to their habits.

They do not want to admit that they are slaves to the sexual energy, so they turn it into a 'game' where they have 'conquests' and each time they do so, they strengthen the thought structures supporting this behaviour and become even more of a slave to it.

Women are drawn to these characters because they are already involved and have 'social' credibility - they are already committed and they (for the women) fulfil the temporary need of sex.

Women however, have fallen into the same trap and become slaves to their 'need' for sex and now everyone is running behind everyone's back having affairs while sustaining the pretence of freedom and 'happily married lives.'

The whole cycle is a form of self deception and a prison.

Only concerted, focussed dedicated effort can change the mind, 'rewire' the brain and free these people from their ad-dictions.

Answer 3

Not ALL men cheat. It's usually the ones that are either tired of the same o, same o, or the one they are cheating with, may be doing something for them that their wife isn't doing. If a wife isn't having sex with her husband, he's probably cheating with someone just for the sex. For men, sex is machanical. No emotion there. For you women there is an emotional side to it. men and women are different in that way. You get into an arguement and say, "Don't touch me!" So, he thinks, "Ok, I'll go touch somebody else." If you think you're taking something away from HIM, think twice. You might be taking something away from yourself, and forcing him into the arms of someone else. Witholding sex from your mate is not the way to "Win your cause."
Also, maybe he feels you don't feel the way about him like you used to. Maybe you nag some, or don't give in sometimes. men can feel unapprechiated too. maybe there's some fault-finding going on. You shouldn't keep "Your List of his faults" too long. I know some men hear them 24/7. Then some pretty thing comes along and builds up his confadence. He likes! - He likes! Before long,...............well, you know what happens.

Answer 4

I can answer it even though you will not like or accept the answer, no woman ever does. Women want an answer that make men seem like evil, uncaring, ***holes. So you can believe what I tell you or just lie to yourself, its up to you.

Testosterone is the principal male sex hormone, its responsible for enhanced libido. Now listen up because this is really important. An adult human male body produces about EIGHT TO TEN TIMES more testosterone than an adult female body.

There you go, now I am not justifying what men do. I have never cheated on my wife nor do I ever plan too, but I can't say I have never thought about it. Now tell me why do women cheat?

Answer 5

Not just men cheat, women also. if they stay with their wives the chances are they still love them or money, kids or property are involved. let's hope your man continues to stay loyal to you. You have to work at any relationship and never go to bed or leave the house without making up after an argument.

Answer 6

I would suppose some do it just to be able to get laid. I know that for quite a few of the guys I know who cheated on their girlfriends/wives, it was because they hadn't had sex in months, or, for some of them, years. Wasn't that they didn't feel loved, they just wanted to get it on, but their partner didn't.

It's a tough question. You'd probably have to ask a guy who cheated- but usually those guys don't admit it.

Answer 7

Poor communication causes people to distance themselves and neither is fullfilled. People in desperate situations generally tend to revert to base/primitive habits. A lot of men think that by having sex they are proving that they are still wanted by someone, even if the wife they have at home is "rejecting" them.

If people communicated better, were more true with themselves and the people in their lives, we wouldn't have as big an issue with adultery, divorce, and broken homes as we do.

Answer 8

I don't believe that men cheat because their desires or needs are not fully met by their wives. To some extent, this may be correct, but true to his instincts, man is POLYGAMOUS by nature. They want variety. It adds to their "machismo". Variety, they say is the spice of life. They like the thrill of cheating, the "fear" of being caught. Given the opportunity, they will cheat. But if they love their wife and family more, they will always go back to them.

Answer 9

i find good communication is the key to that problem.. my ex husband and i always talked and understood each other.. One has got to listen while the other one talks or vice-versa.. Or one has got to mellow down while the other one is angry..Though he had other irrepairable issues, that part(infidelity) never became a threat or something to worry about in our married life..

Men dont like women who talk too much(i mean who nick and pick too much). No matter how imperfect a woman is, and not communicating well in bed, she can keep her husband and keep him happy by just totally listening to him and avoid bit**ing , making him feel he is the head of the family..

Answer 10

There are those that will argue they cheat because they are not fulfilled in their marriage.

There are those that will argue that this is an evolutionary innate behavior, to spread their seed wider and insure perpetuation of the human race.

There are those that will argue men are weak and victims of their sexual desires.

All of these, of course, are excuses for being selfish and bored, and unable to accept the choices they've made in life. Women are as susceptible to adultery as men, but usually find some fault in the man to hide behind as an excuse.