We broke up once again in October. We really haven't talked, she won't answer my emails. I'm use to this, we've done this for three years on and off. Every Christmas it seems she's angry at me for something. I usually however buy her something nice. Sometimes she thanks me for it and last year I didn't even get a thank you or a Merry Xmas. She didn't start speaking to me again until June, her bday when I sent her Roses. Ok so now not speaking again. She won't return my emails or anything. Do I send her a gift this year? I feel that if I don't she'll think I'm a piece of crap. I usually spoil her. What should I do?
2007-12-04 00:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop doing things and wait for her to do them now. It's not sane to have an on and off relationship. You need to figure out what you want from life. don't spoil her anymore, better, spoil yourself for once.Don't even call, just ignore her, live your life peacefully.
2007-12-04 00:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tesse Malou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not your gf, lets get this straight. She is a person you have had an on/off relationship with and it is very unhealthy.
You fell out last Christmas and din't get together until June, then you split up in October - so, thats 4 or 5 months you have been seeing each other in a year? You aren't a piece of crap, but your relationship is - what a way to waste the best years of your life!!!!
Don't ask questions about a relationship you don't have, my friend!
2007-12-04 01:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Paul M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you for having to go through this ridiculous relationship cycle... You do realize it's not a healthy sounding situation, right? I wouldn't buy her a gift. At best, call her (leave a msg if she doesn't answer) or send her an email telling her Happy Holidays, but don't spend your money on a gift. You're not a couple, you're not in a relationship, why buy her a gift?
2007-12-04 01:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she needs to grow up some. and that you deserve someone better who will spoil you as much as you are willing to spoil her. all relationships are 50/50 . so i would send her a nice Merry Christmas card and that's all . maybe she will get the hint and grow up some . Good luck and contact me sometime to chat
2007-12-04 00:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by ms01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of buying presents for an ex. I think that rather than get a present for your ex, you should use that money to buy an extra special present for your current partner.
2007-12-04 00:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do??? Find a partner that you can remotely communicate with on some sort of level... Geez. You should be WITH your partner at xmas. Don't get so used to this that you think its OK.
2007-12-04 00:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Renesme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her a card with nothing it it. Maybe she will get the point that she can't just talk to you when she wants too that you both need to communicate with each other.
I can't believe you don't feel used.
2007-12-04 00:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Calico L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship is this? I say go look for a new girlfriend and stop playing childish games...
2007-12-04 00:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO she is trying to get you to buy her affection-move on to a less material girl!Be happy!
2007-12-04 00:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the hell! are you stupid! Your wasting your money on someone that doens't want you! Move on and find a girl that will appreciate you!
2007-12-04 01:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by catdogpenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋