I am white and my GF is black and nothing can tare me away from her becasuse I believe God places people in our lives whether marriage or friends and i had two friends disagree with her being black. Well they are no longer my friends and I cussed them out its sick. Was this wrong of me being a christian its just i saw red in my eyes especially when its my GF they made the statement about?
2007-12-03 20:35:42 · 9 answers · asked by Carl F 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It´s right for you to stick up for her. Getting too angry may not be great, but its happened now, its over. Ask God to help you not get angry about things like this in the future. And the truth is, you may well hear more criticism about this topic in the future.... its too bad but true. I also had to put up with stupid comments because my boyfriend (now husband) is Turkish (here in Germany, it is similar to having a black mate in the USA....). People still say stuff to me, even to my parents, but I have learned to (mostly) ignore it, to deal with it (mostly) better. I have learned that people who will avoid me for this are not the people I would get along with anyway. In a way, it makes making new friends actually easier - they are the open-minded and interesting people I like, who are not scared off by "surface-differences".
True friends will support you in anything they see as being good for you, perhaps this was the right time for them to go, before you relied on them too much. Who knows? They might see they were wrong and apologise. You should be open for that too, if they want to come back to you. This is also what God would want us to do!
Good luck!
2007-12-03 20:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were wrong, only because you leaned to your own understanding. Apostle Paul instructed us not to lean to our own understanding. Also he told us, above all get an understanding, and what we need to understand is that Jesus told us that we have a right to get angree, but sin not.
As for you and your GF, Jesus said that He has sheep that are not of this fold, but must come, so don't worry about those that don't understand why you and your GF get along so well. Remember, it's not about us, it's about our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, so do what pleases the head of your life. If you want to contact me do so a bishop.mcpherson@bmwwi.net. You be blessed in the Lord.
2007-12-04 05:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bishop 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your hearth have something. Your hearth tell you and put you in movement. But your mind, the brain, tell you: well, my friends look at me like a freak. My friens aren`t yet my friends. And so on.
This is a situation of conflict in you. Usually you must do a proper decision: If you want to be her husband, well go further. Doesn`t matter the others friends. They aren`t your familly.
If you don`t want to be her husbant a prefer to tell you to grow up and let her.
2007-12-04 05:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by krabul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You fell for one of satans tricks.
Confess it out as sin, GOD will Forgive you, the rest is in the Bible (New Testament) as what to do if you Offend one of your Bro.'s or Sis.'s in Christ.
We all came from Adam and Eve, GOD Changed things up a bit at the Tower of Bable.
But, we all Came From Adam and Eve.
Jesus Loves Ya'll!!!
2007-12-04 04:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No need to get angry. Just walk away. You're better off without them.
Moses - the ONE man God entrusted with the Law - married a black woman. And when his sister Miriam accused him, God struck her with leprosy for not minding her own business.
One more thing - God bless you and your girlfriend - BUT FLEE FORNICATION!
1Cr 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
2007-12-04 04:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should first start by overcoming your fleshy desires. As a child of God you must life a life that is pure, if you truly love girl you would wait and get married to her and remember fornicating is a sin
2007-12-04 04:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by r_king_ra 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
They 'judged' then you 'judged.
Not for Christians to do.
You could have said God made everyone, loves everyone...
Turn the other cheek
2007-12-04 04:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wrong, yes. Right, yes.
Love her for who she is, nothing less.
2007-12-04 04:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Adversity 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's really up 2 u i no about different types of gods bt tht's me lol =D
2007-12-04 04:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by i'm coming to kill you HAHA 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋