I'm feeling some thing which I don't want to. I don't wanna fall inlove. what will I do?

Question

There's this guy I met for quiet some time already. He seems nice yet he tends to be so vocal about his feelings which makes me a bit uncomfortable when I'm around him. I don't want to tell him that I like him though deep inside I really do...and I'm afraid I might fall inlove with him. I'm afraid to take chances this time but I just can't let him slip away!

Answer 1

Love is a good thing but you already know there are doubts too.

If you feel love let him know and ask to be your friend. Things might develop from there.

What makes you uncomfortable about him expressing his feelings? Do you like a boy who knows his own feelings?

Give love a chance...

Peter

Answer 2

What will you do ? Only time and channel 13's 3:15 a.m. infomercial "Madame Charlitan" can tell !

What you "should" do, is exactly what the "Amazing" Mr. "El Chuichupachichi" is on Yahoo Answers to "guide" and "instruct" you in !

For starters you "must" bring closure to the meeting phase of this scenario. Most people require but a few seconds to shake hands and disclose names to eachother.(this is rarely achieved in a quiet manner, perhaps is reason for excessive prolonging of this social meeting, mating, courting ritual).

Whether or not, you and this quiet carouser are deaf and have been "quietly" meeting without end, for "quite" sometime already, by employing the use of sign language, I don't know ?(I'm not "that" amazing) However, I may still be capable of "pointing out" for you, the "Exit" sign.

Now, I'm no "Psychiatrist", but if you both are not lacking any fingers, and if your "manual grammar" is correct, thus not causing any confusion (which may be reason for prolongment) then perhaps the issue of an "endless introduction ceremony" can be aleviated by an acceleration of the process with a "good old fashion" prescribed dosage of a few dozen milliongrams of "Methylacceleracaine".

Moving right along now, (zoom,zoom,zoom).
As for your discomfort, brought about by your brilliant knowledge of the "fact" that any man who "tends to be so vocal about his feelings" certainly can't be "nice", even though he deceptively "seems to be".
(footnote) his being vocal has led us to the discovery that neither of you are deaf.(I'm "amazing" again)

To achieve a high level of comfort, all that is required is that you stop positioning your self "around" him, as this can be physicaly demanding, thus causing discomfort.
Instead, try positioning yourself merely in "front" or "behind" or to either "side".

However, if you prefer the "around" position, and parting with it, is just simply "out of the question"
(as are all of my conclusions) Then simply, "stand your ground", be firm, and not too polite, and tell him that you apathetically "feel" that he should take his sensitive saturated vocals to the "Opera"

If you don't want to "tell" him that you like him deep inside, then don't !, and just keep on enjoying it !
He might be shallow anyways, therefor, he also might like it, and continue to like it, even if you don't tell him anything !
Or, you can convey it to him through sign language, saving you from having to "tell" him.
Also, "sky writing" might work for you !
Although it might be quite expensive to have someone sky write the entire, rather large phrase
"I like you deep inside"

Finally, we come full circle, back to the first sentence of your question:
"I'm feeling some thing which I don't want to".

This is just merely a result of your being a female.
It has long been observed and recognized by many in the field (of play) that a female will speak such contradictions when under these sort of circumstances.
Example;
"I'm feeling some thing which I don't want to".
"I like him deep inside"

It is directly related and connected to the widely and commonly known phenomenon that is ;
"No" means "Yes" !

Normally, I wouldn't recomend it, but if you really don't want to feel "something" or "anything" at all. You can always get a
"Clitoridectomy" !



"Don't mention it"

Answer 3

If he loves you and has said so, then you could say something like: I'm feeling something special for you too. I would let him say the love word first though.

Are you afraid to fall in love? Do you want to be alone the rest of your life? If you do not take a leap of faith sometimes (not always though!!!) then you will not find someone.

It is hard to be cautious but open at the same time. Everyone faces this problem sometime in their lives. Good luck.

Answer 4

Sounds like puberty, or maybe a crush.
Its hard to get rid of, isn't it?
I usually have this lingering feeling of what seems to be a hot sensation when I look at somebody attractive to me.

Solution:
You can try to drop hints to him and see if he responds.
Usually guys who feel the same way would do the same.

If not, there is always time... to heal some wounds.

Answer 5

This is a tricky question, still let me try to answer.

I think the best way, in my opinion is, to let him know about your feelings for him, and also discuss the concerns you have about his being too vocal, and how uncomfortable you feel because of that.

Once you have a one to one discussion, I guess the issues you have, stands a chance to get addressed.

Answer 6

Right you dont like him because hes quite vocal about his feelings right? what is wrong with that, you need to relax girl and go with the flow because if your not careful someone is going to come along and take him from under your nose, it sounds to me as if you have been hurt before, just take it nice and slow and see how you go, goodluck.

Answer 7

It's beter to have loved and lost to have never loved atal..cant remember where i read that lol seriously dont b scared it might not work out but you'l have some good memorys nothings worst than regreting what you didn't do in life..x

Answer 8

whats wrong with falling in love with him, if its where your hearts wants to be and deep down its how you feel then go for it! lifes theres for taking risks! don't leave things un said otherwise he may feel you really don't care about him whereas really you do. don't have regrettes, its better to regrette something you did rather than something you didn't do.

all the best
meg xxx

Answer 9

Listen to your heart,Is he a good person is he honest caring and not a creep.Well then if you answered these with a yes then he is worth keeping open up.

Answer 10

Seek ye first the Kingdom of god and His righteousness and all other things shall be added unto you...including the guy.