Recently my good guy friend has told me that I was his inspiration when..well masturbating.Should I be flattered or freaked out?Have anyone else been told this by a guy they know or stranger?
2007-12-03 16:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's flattering but seems to be putting a lot of pressure on you-now you have to decide what to do with that info and there's no kind way to say "Ewww, no way with you, EVER!"
2007-12-03 20:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect he told you this in the hope of realising his fantasies. I'm fine with my husband using me as inspiration but I would hate to even think that one of my friends would think of me that way.
2007-12-04 01:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by freebird 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's perhaps not the most appropriate thing to say, however if he is your good friend he probably thought it was acceptable. I wouldn't be freaked out though.
2007-12-04 00:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by grace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, that's very disgusting. "Inspiration" huh? What "inspired" you to ask this question in "Etiquette"? Trolling maybe???
2007-12-04 06:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that this guy thought it would turn you on, or thought that it was a way of paying you a compliment. But I personally find it creepy.
2007-12-04 02:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think l would be a little freaked ou trather than flattered.Your his friend,not his fantasy.l find it also a bit hard to understand why he would even tell you that.
2007-12-04 01:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's as close as some can come to saying, "I love you", sweetie. Me thinks me smells a jester amongst us.
2007-12-04 05:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it's flattering but when you realize that he told you that on that basis.... I don't think that's nice
2007-12-04 02:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by dark angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i find you to be my inspiration when i masturbate
2007-12-04 00:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋