i was over at his house the other night and he didn't try anything on me. I finally asked him last night if he wasn't attracted to me or what? His response was he really wanted to but he didn't want to be out of line and he knew once we got started, it would get out of control. I don't know about you but I feel like I'm practically begging for it and it's starting to make me grumpy. He doesn't ever suggest when he has free time to get together and I'm getting weary and tired of being the initiator. I'm just not feeling it anymore and wondering if he's feeling the same way which might explain the whole sex thing. I want to end it and I've tried but he gets all mushy on me then I can't. HELP
2007-12-03 14:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it is kind of annoying how the guy always has to initiate sex. my old girlfriend always made me beg for it. and then sometimes when she really didnt want it she made me feel so guilty for being persistant. if you want sex just be straight up about it and if you dont that say that too. believe me any guy would be very grateful.
2007-12-03 14:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by joshtheG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe that the guy is nice person who doesn't want to indulge in sex straightway taking advantage of your strong desire to do so.He also unserstands that once this is started it will simply go on repeatedly with you.You seem to develop irresistible feeling to have sex with this guy.
Please give him more chance and let him accept you as his "real one he was craving for".Once that feeling will be there in his heart, I am sure he will initiate such ACT more frequently than you are thinking now.He has very high self control.It's good.He is truly a nice person and deserves to be a good friend of yours and may be much more. You too should behave in a manner so that you never look like a cheap "sex doll"...ok?I know you are capable of doing that.......earn your love in most respectable way.I bet....he is yours and will get closer and closer to you if only you show little more restraint and remain a bit reserved.You can kiss him , and smooch a lot and stop there .......on most occasions.The initiative will result from him for a final Do.Let him not get the feeling that "you are easy to get".....please.
God Bless
2007-12-04 03:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, give him one more chance and if he fail to come through then its time to move on. Call him up and put it all on the line with him. Tell him that you would like to know when he will have a whole day (24hrs) to spend with you alone at his place or yours. Next, ask him do he really want to do it with you, if he said yes (which I think he will said) let him know on that day is all about doing it. Then you show up at his door wearing something very sexy under you coat. Now, if he act or stumble around with a day that he have free to spend with you. Right there, just tell him the relationship is over, wish him well and said good bye....hang up the phone.
2007-12-03 22:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u see him and ur home alone just jump on him and go at it. My girlfrined does that to me seems to work.But when i want it turns into a lil game LOL.If u want it and cant get it and asked for it and he doesnt comply just move along.There is a limit to everything
2007-12-03 22:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you want to dump the guy because he doesn't want to have sex with you? so you basically want to dump a guy because he sees you as more than a lay...i think you should go ahead, because he deserves someone better!!!!
2007-12-03 22:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy to me! I am always ready and "up" for it. You might want to check his libedio!
2007-12-03 22:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by G Money 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋