This Boy And I Were talking For Awhile And He Was Really Into me calling me twice a day and we were going to day out but he was grounded at the time. we talked about what we were going to do what movies we were going to go see and everything. then we got into an arguement that was actually a complete misunderstanding. He didnt want to hang out one night he wanted to go home and go to bed and i said go ahead no ones keeping you he seemed like he was in such a rush so i took it as I DONT WANT TO BE HERE!!!! then he started acting weird, then we finally talked about it and he told me what was wrong with him i apologized a million times i even wrote him a letter. he quit speaking to me. a month later we started talking again and few weeks into it i asked him where is this going and he said i dont want a girlfriend he basically just wanted someone to mess around with. Did that arguement change his mind about me???
2007-12-03 13:21:09 · 17 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he rides by my job and stares at me whenever he thinks im mad at him he calls me. im just confused. hes 17
ummm....idk why he was in that mood that confused me too!!
i let it go over the summer and quick speaking to him i still care about him even after the way he treated i feel pathetic!!!!
2007-12-03 13:23:15 · update #1
It sounds to me that he didn't want a gf in the first place. It's not because of your argument. And it's not because of you. you've got to remember, he's a 17 year old boy. He's still playing with his toy lol, he's not mature in the head yet just like all the other teenager boys. So my advice to you is find someone different and if you really like him then find someone different and make him jelouse, make him wish he was your boyfriend. Making and boy jelouse and playing hard to get is always the key answer to getting him.
Good Luck!
2007-12-03 13:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Uh instead of worrying about someone that doesn't talk to you, and someone that just wants to fool around, and going out of your way to actually put energy into asking the question on the Internet, get someone else, or be happy being single, and tell the guy to go away.
2007-12-03 13:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anja 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This person has a mental problem. Most likely a borderline personality. Be happy he is out of your life. You just dodged a huge bullet. Don't waste anymore of your precious time thinking about him.
2007-12-03 13:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so but if he just wants to "mess around" you can do ssooo much better than that you can find somebody who wants to have a real relationship not just to meess around i don't think one stupid argument reallly changed his mind oviously it was already made
2007-12-03 13:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Amy W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may have. Sometimes one word can change things forever. I'm sure something else would have come up later & that would have changed things anyway. I don't think he is thinking about you. Move on to bigger & better things.
2007-12-03 13:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe hes out with another girl or he just feels like you're relationship isnt meant to be. but if he always looks at you and stuff like that, maybe he doesnt think its the right time yet (but still wants to be with you).
2007-12-03 13:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jordanian Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He either is not that into you or he is telling you the truth. When a guy tells you something negative about himself it is usually true.
2007-12-03 13:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by arichter399 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't worry you sound young there will be plenty of boys out there take your time enjoy being young no need to rush
2007-12-03 13:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
guys get bored easily, so im sure that was his malfunction, they also like to chase, not to be chased after....i would move on, if he just wants to mess around with you....he's seriously disrespecting you....sorry :(
2007-12-03 13:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow this dude is a creep, using u like that. don't see him at all
2007-12-03 13:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lulac O 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋