2007-12-03 13:08:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Realise that I'm used to the way she moans at me, and that it could be worse....I'm guessing, (not really, she is a total psychotic freak, but I still love her).
2007-12-03 15:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Scott Bull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to decide if it is something that you can live with and how it is affecting you. Does it take away your joy and happiness? Is it making you a better or worse person? Why settle when you can find true happiness somewhere else. It's cliche but honestly, life is too short to just settle. It's also true that when one door closes another one always opens. In short, I'm saying...Move on. But only if you have already discussed it and no changes have been made.
2007-12-03 21:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by scorpiogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what behaviours they have.. snoring, being obnoxious, over-bearing, jealous, picks spots.. never washes, shaving, stubborn, or lazy...etc.
Now some women like these things in a man/woman (er ....except the spot-picking, never washing perhaps, or shaving... faces/legs arm-pits ugh !!!!)
But being in 'love' means different things to different people, and both sexes will put up with a lot, just to be with the person who in their eyes is ' perfect'..
Maybe a sit-down and write ' what you love about each other list' and a 'what you hate about each other list' could work.., then write down a ' who gets what list' just in case it doesn't and it leads to a divorce, or break-up !!!!
merry christmas
a friend (female) x
2007-12-03 21:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by CARAMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them more than yourself then stay.
If you care about yourself and your partner is unable to modify their behaviour then you should leave and find somebody more suitable.
Be careful.The grass isn't allways greener.
2007-12-03 21:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by jopfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them gently, no one likes to live a lie. Maybe your partner will change.
2007-12-03 21:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Vash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just put up with it, but a life with hardly any sex (once every 4 months) is driving me insane and I honestly don't think I can take much more.
2007-12-03 21:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by smudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its those things that make me go crazy just leave the relationship it may seen hard but it for the best those things will never change!!
2007-12-03 22:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Swansea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change yourself to accept her.
If not, the other way is to get get a new 'her', but this is the last resort.
2007-12-04 04:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by denarea3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like you been married as long as me,only i say "i love you! but i dont have to like you!"
2007-12-04 01:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind, if you truely love them , put up with it, you cant change them, i bet there is things he/she doesnt like about your behavior 2, xx
2007-12-03 21:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by EMILY S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋