All she ever does is make fun of me & calls me fat. she is also a racist. When I make a mistake, she tells EVERYBODY what I did, even if it was minor. I can still hear her laughter..
She used to beat me, and pinch me until I get a big purple bruise. When she treats me disrespectfully, I do the same. When I do, she tells my dad about it, and he and her gangs up on me. Sometimes it leads to more beating, but mostly, yelling and slapping.
I hate my mom. I help around the house and do things, but it never seems to be acknowledged. She complains about how i'm such a spoiled kid, i'm lazy, and screams at me for the stupidest reasons. All I hear when she comes home is screaming for me to do simple things, but in an annoying tone.
Some of you might not understand this..not all family are loving. My mom might be, I understand, but she never shows it. She only shows the negative things. I've heard her say that she'd rather sell me to a black family. she hates them. How do i deal with this?
2007-12-03 13:02:11 · 9 answers · asked by Nina is here! :D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
heck, if you don't care, don't answer. your choice
2007-12-03 13:11:00 · update #1
just ask her directly! what shall I do to make u happy...and DO IT!!! if u say she`s a loving mom but doesn`t show that...then she is :) believe me...I used to hate my mom`s acts with me(very much similar 2 urs but didn`t hit thanx God!) but when I changed my way and showed her how much I care about her ....she changed completely...u need patience..it took me coupla` weeks b4 she changed.. hug her all the time and tell her how a great mom she is(even if she make fun and keep her annoying comments)..just keep the "loving tone"...and she will CHANGE :) goodluck
If it`s too hard on u..tell one of ur aunts or uncles if u can..they may help alot stop the violence( the family may solve the problem b4 u need 2 call the police)
2007-12-03 13:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by LadyLynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are half black or racially mixed and your mother resents it Find a safe person to talk with Is there some relative that will treat you with the dignity and respect ( Every child deserve no matter what color they are ) If you have truly tried to get along and they are just plain out ignorant and mean It is time for you to find some where that is a safe enviroment Abuse should not be tolerated by anyone at any age Please seek help from a counselor or trusted adult
2007-12-03 21:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report her to family services and have yourself removed from that violent family. Abuse is abuse, whether physical, mental or emotional. Talk to a school counselor and have them give you direction on what to do. No matter have not the counselor call your parents. Even call the police.
2007-12-03 21:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait till it is too late. Report to appropraite people but before that contact your close friend or close relative. Take care
2007-12-03 21:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by ISHQ Ambitions 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure that's some kind of child abuse
YOU NEED TO TELL AN ADULT
like a guidance counselor at your school.
dont be afraid to tell the truth to the adult.
they need to know.
2007-12-03 21:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by waffle house whore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to these other people! if they beat you call the cops on them and tell the cops you arent staying there with them. they could be arrested for child abuse!!! this is serious!! if you need someone to talk to email me
2007-12-03 21:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by joelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your mom and ask her why she is doing all that and if she says hates you then well call social services and tell them all this!!!!!
2007-12-03 21:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by bosnian babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she hates u too so who cares
2007-12-03 21:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave , your not alone
2007-12-03 21:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by jim m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋