My friend is being extra territorial. I finished doing a part of my homework after I ate lunch, since she had the same homework, I just asked if I could see it. Then she screamed, "NO!" and hid it. I asked her why, but she just screamed at me again. What was her problem? I was already done, so I wasn't able to copy it anyways...not that I would. She does the same with her drum sticks too. I take a look at it, while it's still sitting on the table, and she snatches it away.
And usually when I'm eating, I put my hand in front of my mouth when I'm chewing. It's like instinct now, I don't want people to see the food in my mouth. When she sees me do that, she mocks me and starts speaking to people with her hand over her mouth. It's so annoying-I just glare at her.
2007-12-03 12:26:30 · 6 answers · asked by Nina is here! :D 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If she was your friend, she wouldn't be so pathetic. Tell her to grow up and get over herself.
2007-12-03 12:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't like you very much. You should stop trying to initiate conversations with her, and don't even look at her things.
Putting your hand over your mouth is a silly habit, most people chew with their mouths closed and that blocks the view of the food. But that's not the point - the point is that she's finding your quirks and making fun of them.
My advice is to quietly and politely put some distance between yourself and this mean girl. Don't try to speak to her about it, she'll make you sorry you did.
2007-12-03 20:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a friend just like that when I was a teenager. Everything was a competition, everything I did or said was mocked or joked and she would always manage to tell me how she could do what I did, but better. I say cut her loose, that's what I did. Turns out that she was stabbing me in the back anyway telling my other Friends things that I never said. Cut her loose and cut the drama.
2007-12-03 20:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The HW Drumsticks thing doesn't seem to important, so on to other things
About the hand thing, yea shes being obnoxious, heres your response
"Haha, good one, what're you trying to hide? That huge booger? OH THATS YOUR FACE!!!!!!"
Ok, so the delivery sucks and booger is a 5-yr old's word, you can change those, but the idea still works!
2007-12-03 20:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't really sound like a friend to me. For sure say something. If that doesn't resolve it, I'd find someone less whacked to hang out with.
2007-12-03 20:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Parkie21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, speak up to her and ask her what her problem is. Maybe it's a competition thing for her.
2007-12-03 20:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋