my girlfriend seems to have a bad temper and has attacked me a couple of times. shall i end it?

Answer 1

yeah, unless you like to be smacked ...

Answer 2

Wait, you need to think this through seriously. Think, do you love this girl? do you think it can work, bar from her bad temper.

Does this temper only occur during certain times of the month? because if it's on a constant basis, you may need to suggest councelling for you two to work it out, however, she also may be suffereing from really bad PMT... She may not mean it you know, it's seriously a bad conditions that affects a lot of women, including myself.. I'm terrible, i get really ill and terribly tempramental but i take evening primrose oil which suprisingly helps me, but if I don't i can be a nightmare.. I would never go so far as to attack my boyfriend but you know...

And well if she's genuinely violent towards you, you should never put up with it really, because men who are being abused by their partner is largely under reported and probably occuring more often than we think.
You really can work it out if you just talk to her properly and address the situation because she really needs to know how you feel, don't just go dumping her.

Answer 3

Could get nasty mate. Mine stabbed me in the leg, I bled for three days! The problem is that later she will leave you claiming that you were the violent one (and that claim will be based on the fact that she got hurt while you tried defending yourself) and no one is going to take your side when that happens.
There should never be any violence in a relationship.
Also, there will be times when you do have to get physical to defend yourself, and even though you may have no intention of hurting her, men are naturally stronger than women. She will get hurt, then how are you going to justify that.
Violence breeds violence.


Mickeygee that's a terrible answer. If a man hit a woman and said she caused him to do it he'd never get away with that.

Answer 4

That depends, are you afraid of her or afraid she will hurt you? because if so then leave her. If not then just face her and tell her to calm down. If it doesn't annoy you too much and shes not actually a threat then its not too big a deal, some people just have temper tantrums. If you think she will scratch your eyes out or burn you when sleep or do you serious harm then get out of there as soon as possible.

Answer 5

If shes brutally attacked you then end it. Bad tempers could be because of a bad relationship maybe, or she may be having a tough time.

Answer 6

depends is you provokes the attcks and how serious the attacks were, if it was a clip roud the ear, no, if it was a punch in the face yes, need more info, xx

Answer 7

wow.

depends what you mean by attack.
yelling and taking it out on you,
or physically attacking you...

are you the problem?
do you cause he to "attack:" you?

if i were you, id get out of it as quick as possibly because she will just keep usin you as her punching bag. and she will eventually wear you down so low, you just wont be able to handle thigns anymore

Answer 8

yes. think if the genders were reversed: hitting isn't just about the pain inflicted, it's just an unnaceptable and degrading way to treat your significant other.

Answer 9

some women (my mother included) enjoy being hurt physicaly by a man,give her a warning let her know you will not put up with it.if it continues just walk away.

Answer 10

try to work it out with her but i dono if you can, maybe end it before u get to attached. girl i was with would always like to fight , i rolled over n talked it out with her for the longest time, but she never changed.

Answer 11

straight answer would be yes.Whether male or female got out of a violent relationship i say